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I know exactly how you feel. My girlfriend has now told more people that I'm trans than I have. She doesn't feel its wrong because these people don't care but I don't feel its fair to take control...

as everybody else has stated goodwill and savers or any second hand will have a decent selection at low prices. I don't support the Salvation Army as they have had some very anti-trans stances. ...

Shop, absolutely I go to the Goodwill all the time, but if it's handouts that's another story, those are for the truly needy I always felt.

Aren't those places for homeless/poor to get clothing? I know I'd feel pretty bad about taking stuff from there if I could actually afford clothing.

There are tons of people who didn't start to dress until their teens. I don't remember starting until 12 or so.

Where do you work that an employee can come back into work drunk and not be fired?

A lot of these replies seem to be about crossdressing or about how women react to Transpeople in general. There is a large rift between many feminists and transpeople. Many feminists don't consider...

Like everybody else has said, make sure you talk to her and be honest. My ex accepted me at first but it was faded quickly and ended with her attempting to blackmail me. So initial acceptance...

That is incredibly misogynistic

I don't know if I'd say gays and lesbians have found acceptance in society. They're still treated like second class citizens in most states.

Off topic a bit but does anybody known of a way to change your screen name on this site?

I have gone though so many names its crazy. Even the name I used for this profile is now an old one. Switch it up until you find one that sticks. My girlfriend helped me pick out my latest(and...

The best way to get breast growth is to transition and even then it's not guaranteed. There's no magic trick to gaining breast, unless you have gynecomastia and even that doesn't always look like...

I've heard good things about castro, although I can't say I've ever been

Its been 14 years. Is it possible he doesn't even remember you? To he honest if somebody is met 14 years ago sent me a message saying they had a huge crush on me I'd be a bit put off. I'd have...

I had one for a bit but I couldn't find any good trans related groups and had very few friends on it so deleted it. I might set up another one though.

I wrote an essay once where I described being transgendered as wearing your shoes on the wrong feet. Sometimes its always mildly uncomfortable and you just can't seem to feel right. Other times it...

Getting dirty and greasy at work :( lol. My me time comes during the week.

Sounds like she made an off the cuff remark. I would chalk it up to not thinking. If it'd been me I'd have said something like " a common problem". But I don't know your circumstances.

Why does it seem like anytime there's a trans person on TV their either being laughed at, a sex worker or being murdered? Where are all the normal trans folk?

Came to say this. I never understood how anybody can disassociate while cross dressed. Its just clothes.

Its not what you want to hear BUT, you won't convince her. Of that's how she feels then there's little you can do about it. You're both very young still and in all honesty provably will not be...

The one constant that I've noticed is that your girlfriend brings these accusations to you, you ask your friends about them, and they have no idea what you're talking about. Is it possible your...

You won't have any problem, my girlfriend is trans but hasn't been able to changer her name/ID marker and other than a few "is this really you" questions there's no problem.

I'm not abandoning this community is the thing, I think it's great. I'm just looking to branch out a bit is all.