My wife noticed and was complaining about some facial hair which has sprouted recently and I've experienced all of the symptoms of lowered T over the past couple years as other posters have. It...
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My wife noticed and was complaining about some facial hair which has sprouted recently and I've experienced all of the symptoms of lowered T over the past couple years as other posters have. It...
There's nothing wrong with being Bi. I went through the exact same thing as you. On the other side I now accept that I'm Bi and TG (or possibly Bi-Gendered - would that be Bi-Squared?). Talk about...
If I only knew...really. Maybe some obscure behavior I learned when my mother and sister dressed me as a girl at 5 years old. Maybe some innate expression of myself. If I had a bra or panty for every...
I think it wise not to engage. Even in my "blue state" here there are many like him: ignorant, arrogant, narrow minded and vocal. And ... always possibly violent. It's not worth the risk. There are...
Autistic spectrum folks like your daughter are a gift. They are such beautiful and real people. Blessings.
Sigh. I avoided reading this thread until now. Now I know why. I should be working but I'm not. My wife's away and I'm reading this and she doesn't know what I'm doing. I'm not CD'd. I did that...
Earlier in my life I would've answered CD only. Over the years, as I un-peel the layers obscuring my true self or maybe as I evolve, I feel more female in my core than male. But how would one really...
Shan - you are so right on. While I'm a generation before you, I have a son who is a generation after you and I can say we all share your skepticism about our society (banksters, greed, intolerance,...
I'd say it took a long time to figure this out on my own. Our culture makes men so mono-dimensional. This is a good thread for CD's to read and understand that it's ok to be this way. In my case, I'm...
Novice in 1980. Lapsed and re-entered the hobby in 2007 when they changed the rules to code-less licenses. I took the tech exam passed it, the general exam, passed it and the examiner said heck you...
Marie, it feels so right when I can express myself as female. When I'm stressed or anxious it calms me. When I let "her" out it heals me. It feeds my creativity. I feel very female on the inside. I...
Two wrongs don't make a right...or is that a double negative? Hmm... How about Criss-Cross dressing? I don't think i get it.
Amber I give you a whole lot of credit. Congrats on making it happen. I love that museum. I've been there a few times with my son when he was young and with my Dad before he passed (he was a fighter...
Based on everything I've read, I'm right in the middle of the TG spectrum: TG. And I'm a recovering male ;)
Karren I'm so sorry for your troubles. This is a very cathartic thread because so many of us identify with the anguish brought out in your situation. The thread and subsequent posts really...
Here's a question then. I am a CD and TG. I feel a strong female presence in myself. But I'm not TS or thinking SRS or radical changes. My wife is on board and she has been just great through this...
I can so echo what all you are saying in response to this thread. I will add that if you had asked me this even 5 years ago I would have hedged. It's been evolving for 25 years at least but last year...
[QUOTE=Katesback;2825315]I always found it an interesting paradox as to how many straight CDs turn gay once they are dressed.
No paradox there. Humans long for companionship and intimacy and...
I totally agree with the celebrity approach (obviously in concert with education about gender spectrums). A minute of celebrity face time is worth an hour of education (unfortunately). It's sort of...
The same thing just happened to my wife and I last week. The waitress, though, corrected herself and apologized. I just smiled and said no worries. I was in drab but also very neutral. My nails were...
Love my 38B's. Funny how your worst gym class high school nightmare and source of total anguish can become such a great asset 40 years later. Our high school had a pool and everyone had to take...
Flent, please don't worry about CDing being the mistress. The going out part is the enhancement of excitement brought on by risk - adrenaline. CDer's are to my knowledge the most faithful of men. We...
Acastina, I agree totally with your comments. The "gateway drug" argument is a strong one in our culture. It tries to explain our innate "slippery-slope" fears for exactly the reasons you pointed...
Really, I've mostly been working on the interior. I can wear the clothes often enough (but I'm not out of the closet). And my nails are a little long and shaped even in drab. But I've decided that...
The calm and creativity I get from it. And the variety of expression.