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Strange you should mention this redtea.. I remember my first pair of skinny jeans. the first time going out in them and being so scared someone would notice and say something.

I found that very...

I think like everything else, it all depends on the person who encounters it. Most people are quite accepting once they have the answers to the obvious questions regarding sexuality and desire or...

We cannot change how others act, only how we react.

It sounds like you reacted in the best possible way. The fact that he's chosen to distance himself isn't anything you can control, and unless...

It's actually surprising how little will ever be said. Personally, I have two piercings in each ear, normally a set of gold ball studs in the lower and gold mounted gemstones in the uppers, but I...

That's the thing Suzie, most would take it that the girl was not actually making such an assumption. It is far more likely that she meant to ask if you were shopping for someone etc.

I think if...

Good for you Alyssa. I think you'll find once you get started that the SA's will hardly bat an eyelid. Whetever new steps we take, there are hundreds if not thousands who have gone before us.
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If it had to be answered in one word.. that word would be "normal"

At the end of the day, the clothes I wear do not make me who I am. I have always said that I'd prefer a world where I could...

Mom will always be mom.. and mom will always love her little boy, even if he likes to be a little girl sometimes..

A mothers love is unconditional.

Like everything, it varies from person to person. Personally, I would still dress. I haven't done many photos recently anyway, but just looking down and seeing what I'm wearing is enough.. I use...

Heartfelt congratulations to you Melanie.. Just reading through your post reminded me of so many of my firsts.. My very first interaction was at a petrol station too.. wasn't self service though.
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I haven't found that the urge to dress has changed significantly since I came out. The one thing that has changed, is now that I no longer have to worry about changing into drab to visit friends and...

You say you will make it simple, and then you suggest that "knowing" if you're a man or a woman is the primary key. For most of us, traditionally (society is becoming more accepting these days of...

Sue got it pretty much right. Just as there are a few CD's who are actually on the path to realising they wish to transition, there are many who knew from an early age and it manifested not as a...

I think it's like every other progression. Many of us feel happy in the clothes and the makeup.. some want to go further.. a few even fool themselves and others that they have enough even though...

Most employers in the UK now have anti-discrimination policies that specifically reference both gender and gender identity. The larger the company, the more likely this is, and despite everyones...

You have many options.. tell them that if you don't shave them you look like a chimp in a t-shirt when you wear short sleeves and you don't like it. Tell them you have a skin condition that is...

Ahhh fond memories.. Personally, on my first foray, I wore a black and white striped tunic top with a cute Jane Norman black skirt.. knee length but a wraparound design at the front. paired it with...

Being Gay means being exclusively attracted (sexually) to males. As for where "straight" ends and "gay" begins it's the first time you olook at a guy and think "I'd like to see him naked".. and that...

I pierced my own, rotated them several times a day.. and switched them out for gold ball studs after just 4 weeks. I put a second set in above them which again after 4 weeks were switched for gold...

That would be called aggravated assault in the US, and Grievous Bodily Harm in the UK.

An assault is any intimate contact that causes harm or offense to the recipient, this includes verbal assault...

3-4 and holding steady. I thought I'd move to a 4 once I "outed" myself, but the fog hasn't descended and the frequency of my dressing hasn't changed significantly, just the time of day I'm...

The mods will probably edit your post Ana, they consider it bad etiquette to quote an entire post especially if replying immediately after it lol

I hope your experience on flickr is positive.. let...

Good for you Ana. You seem fully aware of the possible risks of someone connecting the two pages so why not put yourself out there.

I have separate FB pages, although as time goes on and more of...

Hi Marianne,

I started like you, late night drives to nowhere, worked up to drive thru's and garages, I used to visit my friend 30 miles away on winter evenings when it got dark early etc.

For...

Since I came out in my town, I've had my nails gel'd up more often than not.. and have even taken to wearing my quilted flats rather than my guy trainers.. even my longline cardie has had an outing...