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This is why I have such a possitive attitude about life. There are far more wonderful people in it, then there are those wish us harm. Thank you for shareing such a compassionate story Laura, I only...

I'm confident enough to not care what others think (I refuse to give others that much control over me).

My body is shaved, my eye brows are plucked, my toes are painted, my nails are manicured...

Chastity, It would be help full to know where you are. This only seems to be a matter of logistics. There are numbers of support mechinisims for you to use.
Heck almost every Dress Barn that I have...

And to answer you a little bit more specifically. I identify as Transgendered. I do not wish to have GRS, nor do I take hormons. My sexual interests are in women, though I have had experiences with...

Donna, and what a sweetheart for asking such a very important question.

You have to separate gender and sex to know the real answer. Whom you are attracted to has nothing to do with what is...

With all due respect Hope; only for those with thin skin and who consider it proper to defer their responsibilities on to others (namely the government). Why do you think a strong and profound...

A rose is a rose is a rose, by anyother name it would still smell as sweet.

Though I completely understand the emotional connection with being called out in a negitive context, I.E. a derogitory...

I think that there is a natural tendency for women to please, to do what is necessary to keep a mate, to ensure their nest has love and tenderness, is clean and healthy. There was a study done that...

Never purged once really, I'm a damned old Yankee and we never throw anything away.. Might need it someday!

I guess I would simply say, because we can.

Life changes when you reach 40, those things that were once important Kids Career Marriage aren't so much. Many have already mentioned that you now need...

I won't go to bars that card you when your 55 and look 45 (giggle), so I've never had a problem taking advantage of Ladies night. I've also skied at wildcat on ladies day. It should be obvious that...

I'm not sure anyone has said they know what happened in any one particular persons Marriage. Or who is right or wrong. Disagreements don't mean the person I disagree with is wrong, it just means I...

Tammy, If you are worried that you would be giving her power (ammunition). Doesn't this mean that you may already be on shaky ground. Do you feel the one you married is vendictive and looking for...

Thank you Hope for that! I think you summed up the success and failure aspect in any relationship quite well.

Often times we hear that a marraige or relationship is a 50 50 sort of deal, you know...

Trystan, I was basically divoced because I was a crossdresser. But the divorce was bigger then the fact that I was a crossdreser. The biggest problem is that my ex was not, for all intent and purpose...

Hi Nicole, I can understand your thoughts on this. Though I think your strict upbring has a value to your thesis, I also think that you are simply a sensative person (I know I am and felt similar...

You can not live your life, if you have to hide some important aspects of it.

I know I'm going to get a lot of yes you can. And in actuality I do. I do it for those that I love. Having said that....

Hi Makayla,
I'm probably kinda just like you, as are, I'll bet a lot of other girls like us. I tend to go both ways (masculine / feminine) quite well. When I'm dressed for a night out, it is often...

That's easy, standing to pee in girl guise, and sitting to pee in guy guise..

I didn't just say that did I? Well I certainly wouldn't do the first example in a public rest room Ever!!! Unless it...

Well the world certainly wouldn't end, but I might! I am the sum total of my femininity and my masculinity. There for I would be someone else, not me.

Having said that here are two things that...

I'm of the opinion, that most men notice very little other then Boobs, mini skirts, fast cars, and big tools.

(of course it's not all men, and I know it's a stereotype and I know we should never...

HI Michelle, I just wanted to say that I love your "man with a twist" tag line! Kinda makes me think of a cool nights cocktail. Myself, I'd be a Martini, gently shaken and not stirred.

Hi Kristin,

I guess you could say the secret would be patience and honesty on my part. Of course the fact that when Deb met me I was totally shaved, and she knew that I am transgendered. Though...

Hi Charlen, I have been hair free for going on 20 years. Infact just for kicks when the wife and I went to Cancun this year I grew it all back, she hated it!
I am like you and most who do, that the...

HI Meg,

Though I haven't flown enfemme since 9/11 I have several experiences flying in skirts. I also have a couple of experiences with emergency road side services and kindly gentlemen who offer...