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Advice from previous counselors: Seeing a counselor by yourself usually leads to a pulling away from the relationship. That counselor only sees your side. Not fair. Couples counseling works on your...

I haven't been here in a very long time. I have a difficult time believing all the support talked about here. In my situation, early in our marriage she supported a little as part of sex play. Then...

I still think the jaw is the key. I look at that photo and think if you take away the make up and the shaped brows, add a male haircut and then that would look like a guy. When I look at photos here...

I wouldn't unless I wanted to live that way (as a 24/7 woman). Then I would do HRT. But then that's a whole other train. I get tired of just minimal clothes and tuck. No makeup.

Only tell if you are okay with many others knowing about it if you break up. If you are sure you will not break up, or you are fine with everyone knowing, tell her. In my experience, everyone tells...

I'm sorry but these topics piss me off a bit. DADT. Really?

Your spouse married you and didn't expect:

1. You became a religious zealot.
2. You starting smoking and demanded to do it around...

Sexually insecure. That may be a better term or concept. So rejecting the whole role and becoming the passive partner might seem easier in the female role. But that gets into the realm of what is...

Please see a doctor. All you need to say is when I turn my head and tilt it back, I feel light headed. That is a standard test for a problem involving circulation compromise. It could be serious. So...

No. I wish it were not a part of me and I had no conflicts. When I am dressing and feeling like a girl, I am wishing I could be that way completely. Yup. The whole transition nine yards. I am really...

You do it so well. What percentage of the time do you dress completely en femme? I'm always curious about the girls that are so accomplished and look so comfortable.

My ex wife would say it's in your subconscious and you just don't realize it yet. That was always hard to argue. And it is, to an observer, a natural extension of wanting to spend more time fem.

Congratulations. Nice to know there is a place and an event like that. I live two blocks away. I could walk there if I ever went outside. Not gonna happen. But nice to know it's there. Well done. :)

I read the whole paper. I think she nailed it. Try reading it without looking for support for your existing view. I found myself profiled exactly there. I found comfort in knowing something I did not...

We both agreed 15 years ago that I would not do it around her. She really never liked it and it made me feel uncomfortable. We don't talk about it. She thinks I don't do it anymore. She is...

With three wives to examine, I can say they all were not barbies. Little make up and certainly few heels. My current wife owns no heels of any height. The only ones in the house are mine. So what...

Say you are truly heterosexual. You have no desire for the same sex and are very happy with the opposite. You marry someone and are very happy. Then they ask for you to make love to someone of the...

All my life I've given clues to people. Honey, I love that necklace. Those shoes are perfect with that outfit. Yesterday I asked a coworker how she gets that effect with her nails. But they still see...

I just remembered back in the 70's any guy with long hair got looks of wonder. They would say, "Is that a girl?" So if I keep pushing the litle cues with clothes and longer hair and other stuff,...

We can be who we want to be only in our heads for most of us. I love looking down and seeing the long legs in heels and the boobs. I look in the mirror and the fantasy all goes away. I've thought of...

Use my quote: Honey, I just love the feeling of our bare legs rubbing together. It's so sensuous. I never want to give that up. She seems okay with it now.

Sorry. I'm stuck being a womanly man and a manly woman. I wish I could be more of a womanly woman. But I certainly don't want to be a more manly man. Tried that for many years. Tiring. Right now I...

This is funny. I've been thinking of starting just this topic. And here it is. I always think of being her. This happens alot. But then you make me come back and there would be such sadness. Can I be...

Androgynous mode is fun. Pushing bounderies and watching reactions is interesting. I was getting my haircut yesterday. This was my second time with her. The first time I gave her an example of what I...

I was telling my wife about a guy who likes to wear skirts with his male clothes. She said he must be gay. I tried to argue a bit. No she said, skirt equals gay. Of course she said that when I shaved...

I am just shy of 5'10". If I stood up right now, it would be four inches more. Love those heels.