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Let me take you for a ride with the devil in the details!

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This is a very hairy topic for me. At no point did my crossdressing ever have a sexual \ fetishistic dimension to it. It would have been easier to understand and accept if there was. That being...

a compelling possibility, even if the real answer isn't really knowable right now. I think the fact that we come to cross dress without ever being taught how says a lot. On top of getting the urge...

I'm surprised that she'd have that sort of reaciton after marriage and a few children. She must have some grasp of the bigger picture. It seems like once kids are involved, the relationship and the...

This forum can be a really healthy place to come to for problems like this. As you've seen, many here are very willing to tell you that there's no need to conform to the male convention of jumping...

Oh my god, what an opportunity....I'd jump on it 8D

'May' with Angela Bettis usually does it....that's one thing that hasn't changed since I was fifteen. There's also this series of music videos on youtube....the band is some Japanese punk-ish group....

Congratuations, Suzy! I went out for the first time in my hometown on Monday night, still kind of coming down from the rush almost three days later!

Any hopes (no matter how vague) for a...

Believe me you're fine.

I'm sure you've come across a wide variety of reactions other people on this site have had from their ex's, but I think it's safe to say that when it's that hostile and...

An interesting possibility and I find it compelling. Naturally not everyone uses the internet so...memberships of online groups like this are only so reliable, and everyone asssumes passing is...

What my family might think is all over the place...whatever they might think or do, I'm sure it wouldn't be pretty.

ALTHOUGH...if they found out and it went well, that would mean no more hiding!

You two love each other and you're willing to communicate. Maybe I'm a naive 23 year old, but I think that on its own means you two pretty much have what it takes! And Angie: I think seeing Steph...

Oh lord. If I had a dime for every time I thought this.

UM...from what I hear and read, the conventional approach is simply to present as female full time? There are extrenuating health...

I know the feeling. The pressure to present as male is almost an expression of some terrible, unspoken form of conditional love.

Sorry. These past few days have been bad for me. I'm just saying...

Hm...now and then. I'm out to two close friends, but it's not something they can really relate to, and I'm living with my parents whom I'm closeted with. I think life would be easier if I could...

XDDD

Ooohhhh May. Who's not a fan.

Last May I came out to my then girlfriend about crossdressing and it crashed and burned and this time I'm in a living situation where I can't be seen...

Definitely satisfied. Not always easy of course, but confident that this is a constructive thing to keep in my life, and amorphously important, and the amorphousness may well be an illusion. There...

Hm....

So- you see a ton of women's underwear, that at first glace appears to be accessable, then you take what you want, and as far as you know it is yours, and then you are physically unable to...

It...is definitely a mixed bag. Like everyone has said so far, the two things that really matter are your needs and the safety level.

It is good to be able to say 'this is what I'm doing and...

Very true.

I can get by with dressing in private, but I love being seen en femme. If I weren't so afraid of rejection, I'd do it in my hometown. First off, my crossdressing is about me- I've...

I appreciate that you add a balance of self-acceptance and most forms of responsibility (self-reliance, social responsibility, courtesy) since, like nearly everything anyone chooses to act on,...

It kind of does. My life is kind of hectic so I normally don't have time to do everything with my hair, or practice with make up as often as I would like, although I usually do both as much as I can...

UM.....not so sure if she would freak if you ran and hugged her, but I get the feeling! I was in this drag show a few weeks before going home for the summer and a few days later this high school...

On that note-

If you seek psychiatric help, be patient with your provider. It's takes awhile to find the right treatment, and even things that work fine for awhile may not work forever. A lot of...

Hm....when did this start? Is it ever present? Like, always lurking in the background of your mind even during happy moments, or sudden, unexpected bursts?

It is spring...that may or may not...