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    What a wonderful story Macey. And such an amazing...

    What a wonderful story Macey. And such an amazing wife. Obviously, you treat her as a friend and much more. Not as someone to compete with or as a road block or anything like that. That approach...
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    Many people who live in small towns are afraid to...

    Many people who live in small towns are afraid to come out for fear of all the nasty things that MIGHT happen. I think you're a fine and wonderful example goes to show that it isn't so much where you...
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    It is difficult for many SOs to grasp what is...

    It is difficult for many SOs to grasp what is really going on. I think a lot of this stems from the common concept that gender comes in two forms and in between the two forms (male/masculine and...
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    Just goes to show that genetics can do some...

    Just goes to show that genetics can do some interesting things, including produce a more female form in a male body. With about 24,000 genes and about 20,000 of them active and every time a new...
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    In my view, the problem with adding such...

    In my view, the problem with adding such enhancers is that there is a tendency to become dependent upon those in order to engage in what should be a natural and often spontaneous behavior of having...
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    Take pleasure in being able to do what you like...

    Take pleasure in being able to do what you like to do and doing it when you want to do it. Stay active in the way that you prefer. Treat your body well with a good, healthy diet and regular exercise....
  7. Thread: why do we

    by GretchenM
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    I think there is a bit of a convergence of the...

    I think there is a bit of a convergence of the genders occurring. The @metoo movement and other such efforts by women to gain equality with men, a wonderful and beautiful trend in my opinion, has...
  8. I would have to say you probably are. Personally,...

    I would have to say you probably are. Personally, I don't think you have to put a label on it other than gender variant or gender variable. Gender is not an all or nothing affair. It is more of a...
  9. Thread: Tom-boy

    by GretchenM
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    I have never heard any term that isn't at least...

    I have never heard any term that isn't at least somewhat derogatory. It is a consequence of our modern society and the general public's adherence to the gender binary concept and the traditional and...
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    Hi Nancy, In my experience, staying in the...

    Hi Nancy,
    In my experience, staying in the closet is a mixed bag. You are quite correct in your views on the matter in that it is a safe way to go. I was that way for a long time and am still very...
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    From what I can gather from posts here, it...

    From what I can gather from posts here, it happens to everybody (except me, of course - ha ha). Why? Nobody knows. Probably just a matter of having more or less what can be called two gender...
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    Teresa, I think you did the right thing. Making a...

    Teresa, I think you did the right thing. Making a scene, especially with children present, would have been really bad and could have escalated. There is no telling how the other people would have...
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    Nicole, This sequence of emotional reactions...

    Nicole,

    This sequence of emotional reactions and behavior is very common in CD and TG people. The behavior often starts as something innocent that then leads to sexual relief. The good feelings of...
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    Go for it. They called you because you expressed...

    Go for it. They called you because you expressed an interest to the manager and she is giving you the opportunity. It may be short term, but it is more experience in a new line of work - something to...
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    My identity is not a choice. But its expression...

    My identity is not a choice. But its expression is my choice. I wear panties some days and not the other days. It is a matter of what seems sensible at the time considering what I am going to likely...
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    I did that a few years ago when camping an hiking...

    I did that a few years ago when camping an hiking in Zion National Park in October. It was a lot of fun and even though in a general community that is not real receptive to such behavior there were...
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    Some really good responses. Kim's thoughts on it...

    Some really good responses. Kim's thoughts on it are very close to what the medical and therapeutic community finds is the case. In fact, when the DSM5 was being written there was suggestion that...
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    Triggers are hidden everywhere. You rarely see...

    Triggers are hidden everywhere. You rarely see them, but if one goes off a pause in your "hobby" (often it is anything but a hobby), vanishes within minutes as your brain switches to the other mode....
  19. Thread: At birth

    by GretchenM
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    Kendra, You are very likely correct, but...

    Kendra,

    You are very likely correct, but actually Crissy is even closer to the truth. Most of the scientific evidence is pointing toward this behavior pattern being a genetic predisposition or...
  20. The history of fashion is a fascinating journey...

    The history of fashion is a fascinating journey through irrationality. The reasoning behind the fashion at the time seemed so sensible and yet when viewed from another time seems like some kind of...
  21. Besides all the great reasons Fran gave, within...

    Besides all the great reasons Fran gave, within the gender identity research community the emphasis is on the more TS folks than those who do not have such a pronounced shift in identity. The main...
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    Great question Tracy. Back in 2012 and 2013 when...

    Great question Tracy. Back in 2012 and 2013 when I came out I was dysphoric almost constantly. But once I found that a gender identity merge reduced the dysphoria I became less and less dysphoric and...
  23. There are always solutions to this kind of...

    There are always solutions to this kind of problem. It is just a matter of finding them. Making agreements and setting boundaries that are agreed to between both is the path to suitable compromise....
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    Among the transitioned women I am acquainted...

    Among the transitioned women I am acquainted with, they all admit that there are a lot of sacrifices and losses they suffer by being their true selves. A couple have lost all their family. I suspect...
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    Oh my goodness. Your family is an entire LGBTQ...

    Oh my goodness. Your family is an entire LGBTQ organization on your own. There must be some wonderful and fascinating conversations that go on. My wife is from the same background as your wife and is...
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