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Sara,

Your post reminded me that you and I are very lucky to have understanding, loving wives who share the feminine experience so many of us enjoy. Congratulations and happy birthday.

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As always, your posting was interesting and thought provoking. Well done! Thanks. Diane

I too am one of the lucky ones with a wonderful wife who surprised me with a Valentines Day card and a pretty lapel pin for my favorite red jacket.

She even wrote a little note inside the...

First, I am so sorry to hear of your failed relationship. I am also very impressed with how you are digging deep to understand yourself better. This will surely help you find greater happiness in...

I have never, ever been turned away from using a dressing room when shopping en femme or in drab (years ago). I shop frequently en femme, with and without my wife, and I am always treated with...

I agree with all the previous comments. You look wonderfully relaxed, dressed just right for casual daytime shopping and running errands, and totally feminine. From the outside, you just look like...

Rachel: I am sooooo happy for you. Just think, you will be able to finally do what you have probably fantasized about for a long time...the chance to be a girl non-stop for almost a week. This is...

Great post. Thanks for being so open with us all.

You said that you were "working out a plan for a happy medium." Do you think your wife will agree its a happy medium? Do you plan to consult...

You ask, ..."WHY are there CDer's out there who DO have a totally accepting SO yet it just isn't enough:( ?"

I'm sure that you will hear many justifications and reasons for why we just don't get...

You looked great and felt great so get out and do it again soon! Thanks for taking the time to share your wonderful experience with us all.

Diane

I would like to echo the praises of Nordstrom's for being welcoming and helpful to cross dressers. My wife and I have shopped together at Nordstrom's for years. Initially I shopped in drab with her...

Tamara, you are amazing in so many ways. Thank you for showing so many what real courage looks like up close. Warm regards, Diane

Paul: Your SO's mandates don't sound like a basis for a relationship. I would not pass up the opportunity for meaningful communication and compromise, but if she does not want to deal with it, end it...

DonnaG: I would like to send you a private message but I can't until you post at least 10 times. Once you do that, people like me can privately email you to discuss some of the friendship issues you...

Frequency has been up and down over the years, but I would say that I wear femme attire "occasionally" to bed. I usually choose one of three matching chiffon nightie and panties sets. Less frequently...

My experience in being out in public dressed as a woman is that people don’t seem fearful of CDs and they generally just go on about their business without comment or rude objection.

Now,...

Advice: Take the amount of time and attention that your gf is showing to Kristen and then double that in time and attention that you show to your gf. The fastest path to a woman accepting a CD man,...

I think Bev's advice is right on target. If a woman is uncomfortable with the idea of "intimacy" when her partner is in femme attire of any kind, she must work through the issues that most any woman...

You have not mentioned professional counseling. It might helpful for a third party to help you both understand where appropriate boundaries can be drawn that may save your relationship. She said,...

The first step in deciding how to respond is to determine if the feedback is true or not. :heehee:

I can not imagine my wife ever wanting to do this adult baby scene, but that is not the question we were asked to discuss.

To answer as directly as I can, if I came home to hear my wife confess...

REPLY to Q1: Sometimes its the stress that triggers the need to cross dress, but there have been many times that the stress was mostly attributed to not being able to dress.

Reply to Q2: Oh yes,...

I want to echo Veronica's comments that you can shop in NYC with high expectations that you will be treated well. I have done so on many times without difficulty. I always dress in femme for NYC...

Randi:

Congratulations! What a wonderful woman your wife must be to be so open so fast. This is an amazing start to something wonderful for you, but....(here comes the advice part), before you...

Olivia: Thank you. I found your well written summary of telling your children to be very helpful to me. You are quite brave. You told them in March, so how do they act toward you now that some...