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I'd been married for 15 1/2 yrs. when I had the same conversation with my wife. Initially she took the news similarly to your wife, but that didn't last long. My wife was in counseling for two...

I have received suggestions that I direct my wife to this website. I've given that a lot of thought and after reading some of the threads, I've decided against it. If you are being truly objective,...

Neomi: I would never assume the responsibility to tell someone to end a marriage because it is not only intensely personal but I doubt there are many marriages where, the breakup only affects the...

I haven't posted anything in a very long time. Some of you may remember me. I told my wife about my cross dressing after 15 1/2 years and it did not go well. We were in counseling for two years. ...

I was not "discovered"; I told my wife after 15 1/2 years of marriage. It too did not go well. My story is, like so many others on this site, similar to yours. I only told her about my c/ding...

Holly: It's been two years and I've rehashed this with my wife and a psychologist (who, btw is very good with transgender issues). I don't know if I can put it as succinctly as my wife but she...

I've been relatively quiet for some time now but I want to tell those of you who took an interest, offering advice and comments, what has transpired since I started a thread about telling my wife I...

I told my SO after 15 1/2 years of marriage and several additional years of living together prior to marriage. She had no clue at all. She realized, in hindsight, that there had been clues, e.g., I...

I am usually not one to comment but I feel I must on this one. First of all, when we marry or make a lifetime commitment to a SO, that person is commiting to us without the knowledge we're...

You know, if your housemate as not had any indications you're a crossdresser in the past, why assume that she jumps to conclusions. Could she possibly think you have a girlfriend?

I believe Brandyj and Sweeterica are right on. The longer we wait, the more difficult it is for our SOs. I waited 15 years and now, 1 1/2 years later, we're still struggling with it. Still seeing...

V: I've read so many posts on this site relating to coming out to our SOs. Most say "take it slow" and insinuate that "she'll come around to accepting our cding, perhaps with some limits. Well,...

I think what most are missing here is that if the "pill" removed all urges to crossdress, then no one would be missing anything. I don't get the "zombie" comment.

Would I take it? Unequivocably YES

EveMarie: Your quote must have been written by a crossdresser. I believe in reality we are a rather selfish lot.

I disagree with Shikyo. Paula's wife did not know about the crossdressing initially. When he wanted to wear women's underwear she agreed because it could easily have fallen into the category of...

It's my opinion that cders like the "uncomfortable" vintage corsets and bras while ggs don't look sexy in them. In actuality, they're not really attractive. I can't understand the appeal.

The original question was about being made fun of while out en femme. Diana Rose, in response, felt that the person(s) ridiculing a cross dresser feel 'uncomfortable about themselves'. I...

Denise: Could be; however, if we are "proud" of our proclivity than, I say, WTF. Isn't it acceptance we're going for? Maybe with a little education a book about a crossdresser would be more 'on...

I think you should dress age appropriate. Would you admire a 63 year old (in any shape) dressing like a teenager? I wouldn't....but if you're comfortable with it, go for it.

Debbie37: I have attended Tiffany Club meetings in the Boston area. Sherri52 has it right. Sometimes there's a GG or two present. Honestly, the GGs always appear somewhat nervous (or outright...

Maggie: Last January I told my wife of 15 1/2 years that I was a crossdresser. It did not go well. We are still seeing a therapist and may divorce. However, I can honestly say that I have not had...

Rhonda Jean: I'm with you 100 percent. I told my wife after over 15 years of marriage and it did not go well. If they're not informed in the beginning as the relationship gets serious, then, how...

I told my wife after 15+ years of marriage. She was obviously shocked and felt betrayed. Then she wanted to see me dressed. She was trying to accept and understand. Well, that did not work!!! ...

I realize most all of you feel that cding is not something one can ultimately control and the urge will always return. Well, there are those of us who desperately want to leave it behind us because...