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If I get to Place a 'change order' with 'higher powers' and I am waking up as a woman; make it an athletic 23 year old, wealthy, talented and with all the experiences of my current life at hand. My...

Yep. To look in the mirror and try to reconcile the image of what the model's photo looked like when I clicked 'buy it now' with the reflection of what or who is looking back at me is sometimes less...

Hi Beth,
Thank you for such a heartfelt letter. You are a very special person. I am sorry to read about your difficulties in your marriage. I have no great advice for you. Life can be difficult....

My wife, the most important person in my life, knows, accepts and celebrates who I am. That is bliss.

I have no desire to tell old friends or family.

Before marriage, a number of years ago, I...

Hello Kate,
Selfies can be challenging for many reasons. Then adding the dimension of CDing to the photo shoot makes it sometimes impossible to get a proper photo.

With digital, the chance to...

Hi Nikki,
What a good question. I am comfortable with my closet, it is small compared to others who post here. I have the support and understanding of my wife when it comes to crossdressing and that...

Hi Tara,
I have liked Rago so much, I have a couple of identical full line foundation garments in 2 sizes. One to provide the extra squeeze and force the breasts up and a second larger size to...

Hi Jaye,
I am amazed to learn how cruel 'loved ones' can be to children. It is sad. However, I am happy to learn about your survival, growth and development. It is nice to read your support of...

I agree, most people would probably not care who or what you are shopping for; but small town living and crossdressing, or shopping to dress as such, could create problems for the grade school...

Living in a smaller town has many advantages and of course the disadvantage you mention; you can never be anonymous. This has been my fate for many years, balancing my needs with small town living....

Near term -
buy more accessories, especially jewelry
find some local like minded couples to hang out with on weekends.
attend a weekend getaway to help with makeup issues.

Far term -
Do...

I like any question that gives me the opportunity to tease out insight. Glad it was allowed.

I have a partner that is always ready willing and able. I find that my sexuality and cross dressing...

I enjoy seeing photographs of members who post. I understand why some people are hesitant reveal any facial pictures. Personally, I enjoy the challenge of trying to be the woman I wish to present to...

Hello Isha,
Your note strikes a cord with me. I have never ventured out in public as a woman, and I am not sure if I ever want to do that. One of the reasons I slink away from public crossdressing...

Hi kelly,
The aspects of a positive relationship can never be underestimated. I speak from the experience of having past relationships that were nothing short of disasters, and that is in sharp...

I never thought about the connection of putting a bra on is like getting a hug, but it's true. Putting on any foundation garment is such a pleasure, and yes, for me the simple bra is good; but the...

I have always been intrigued by the concept of hair distribution in us humans. We want it here, but not there. Biologists talk about primary sexual characteristics, such as overies and testicals....

I find myself looking a woman's makeup and trying to analyze what she did to deliver her appearance. I usually start with her eyes to see the shadowing, the brow shape, the pencil length and how all...

The cost of dressing is a wonderful and sometimes painful process. For me, this past year, I have given into my basic need and desire to be a woman and that meant buying a lot of clothes and shoes,...

Using duct tape on skin is a mistake, this is a rule I have learned quickly. I don't care what the youtube info-blogs post.

To me, keeping a detailed list is more of a burden than an asset. I enjoy the things I have, and it seems like work to have a database or journal. When it comes time to pick an outfit, I rummage...