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My ex is gone and so are our kids, and so I've been doing a LOT of dressing en femme while going out and about town lately. But I have a fairly unique summer problem now.

My pain-in-the-butt next...

Back when my ex and I first got together, we had a regular bedroom game in which she would help me crossdress and we would go out for a 'ladies night' on the town. Later, as my crossdressing became...

It's probably not really coming out if you perform in drag and the two people who know about that are the same two people who already know you crossdress anyway. But that's what happened for me,...

If I could play guitar, I'd do it in a heartbeat. But save the dress wearing until after you win the audition and start performing with them.

I'm actually contemplating entering an amateur night...

Ex-wife knows. Some very new trans friends now know.

Years ago, crossdressing and going out together was kind of a bedroom game with myself and now-ex. But her own increasing insecurities and developing homophobia and transphobia put the kibosh on all...

Years ago, when my then-gf-and-later-wife used to help me dress and do my make up as part of a 'girls night out' for our bedroom games, I didn't care if I passed or not. She was my wing girl and I...

Actually, I just recently had stained lips from a new matte, long-lasting lipstick I just bought. Took me at least a day of constant washing over a weekend to remove it.

I've had many marks left...

I was just thinking about this the other day. Even if I want to go out enfemme to run errands for a short bit, it takes me at least an hour to 2 hours to dress and do make up, even if it's all...

You don't need that abuse and drama. I keep wondering (yes, probably it's none of my business) about his real motivation behind inserting himself into your life if he's so toxic and just going to...

I settled on a version of my name at left just because it had no relation to my male name, it was still common enough among women my age, and I liked it. I usually spell it (for my alter ego's mail...

:thumbsup::shades: Great idea. If you show that you are comfortable as you appear, then what kind of power would the picture taker still have? Probably nothing. It may even discourage them from...

I would seek out this lady the next time that you go to that store and buy stuff for your other self.

I gained a bunch of weight after drinking too much beer and becoming less active. I gave up on looking like a woman. No matter how hard I tried, I really just looked like a little, fat old man. Plus,...

We have an old black lab who has recognized me in my birthday suit all the way up to being completely obscured in ski gear. But he usually becomes shy and subdued, and then quietly slinks off to the...

For some people, like myself, it may not necessarily the escapist fantasy of living the life of someone else in particular. But simply (perhaps partially deluding myself into) thinking that I can...

Whoa. What an incredible story about an accepting and understanding mom. Congrats.

I chose Sara/Sarah long, long before a certain former Governor of our state ascended and then fell from power. At the time, it was a good code word for my other persona because neither myself or my...

I always throw a little tube of super glue into my purse for the eventual peeling off of some of those nails.

My SO and I have an understanding about expenditures and our own disclosures of personal spending. Household expenses like mortgage, heating fuel, car payment, food, kids' orthodontics, and other...

This weekend I went out and did holiday shopping both drab and enfemme. I think I went a little nuts. Even while in drab, I was picking up stuff that I've seen worn by GGs twenty years my junior, and...

I always try to hide the bulge. However, because of the position of a loose gaff and the way things migrated around, I recently -- and quite accidentally -- ended up with a facsimile of a female...

Casual red top with a bit of a v-plunge to show just a little cleavage, body suit, forms, favorite red-brown wig, STW hose, gray women's athletic shorts with boy short cut, scrunchie socks, and...

I almost had the same idea as well. Wifey suggested that I dress as a Hooters girl, but I was feeling fat and bloated and too ungroomed to fit into the costume this year. So she whipped up a Bavarian...

Aside from make-up, you can find a wig that's designed for the particular shape of your face. It will complement your best features and hide your less-desirable attributes.

But without more...