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I think the best advice I can give you is to take things one step at a time, set goals, like one could be getting your license, or trying to make more money, or getting a haircut (forget him, you're...

So, I know this is a little late, but, originally, I used boi, as what I thought described my gender identity, which at the time was sort of a butchy, manly, transmasculine, questioning...

HuZZah FELIX!!! I'm jealous, but that's great news. bring on the pics, bring on the pics!!

Good for you either way Cai, I give you props for making the decision to come out to her either way you do it. I wish I could offer some sage advice but, I lack that situation as of yet. As far as...

I am mostly dateless, and most of my dates are freaked out by the whole trans thing so there's really nothing long term. I would eventually like to have a spouse, family, kids perhaps, but for now...

I wear a watch, sometimes a claddagh ring, and sometimes a chain or cord necklace with a celtic cross on it. I don't see why a man can't wear jewelry.

wow. good question. i really don't have anything good to add. My idea of being masculine varies usually depending on the crowd i'm with... around guys, masculinity is spitting, bragging about...

jeez Zen, what's the deal, I looked up to you for superior pirating abilities. hahaha. :invites over for dessert:

to which i can't find an answer anywhere else.

1.Someone told me that ginger lowers your voice temporarily...true? false? any experiences with this?

2. Someone someone also told me that...

i'll drink to that--:drink:. Slainte everyone, glad to see that there's such good news to share.

hey Conrad, welcome back--it's good that you're getting everything together, glad to hear it. :D

Yeah, I definitely feel compelled to act like what I consider the stereotypical man, to insure that i'm passing better, I try not to, I just keep telling myself--no matter what you know you're a man,...

Van will certainly be in my thoughts and prayers tonight. I hope everything works out.

Yeah, I completely feel the big brother thing, except the majority of my friends have always been male. Even before I came out to my mates as being trans they pretty much accepted me as one of the...

Dude, it's so great you're back! We were all wicked worried. You just keep resting up, you'll get your strength back before you know it. Glad you're back... :hugs:

That's great news dude. I'm glad all's going well. good luck with the counseling.

That's great Sebastian, best of luck with coming out to the rest of the family; maybe you can come out of your lurking once and a while, too? :D

:yahoo: That's great news, still a long way to go, but improvement is always good. This definitely calls for a :dance: I guess all our :praying: and sending good thoughts/good vibes Taylor's way is...

Hey Taylor-- Just hang in there buddy. I know you're strong enough to make it through this. Just keep on fighting. I'm praying for you and keeping you in my thoughts all the time, and we're all...

1.How long have you been trans?
Technically speaking I'd consider it forever. I feel my identity was formed and decided when my brain decided that it would fight with my body.
2.When did you...

That really sucks. I'm praying for Taylor, maybe he'll get a miracle, he was coming along so well with everything. :(

I'm always here if you need to talk, i can give you my aim if you want? PM me anytime. and hang in there, things will get better for you, just keep pluggin at it.

That's great Taylor, good luck! :D

Do you think that there are always signs which people should pick up on, to sort of note that sexual orientation or gender are not that of the 'average' conforming way of society?: I think that it is...

Boys don't Cry was my first learning experience as far as trans-ness goes. I learned a lot from it but let's face it...it's disturbing to watch.