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    Like Lauren, I wish you all the best in your...

    Like Lauren, I wish you all the best in your change, Glenda.

    I am one of those that believe you can be feminine without always dressing the part whenever that feeling arises. Some of us go...
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    Teresa, the day has come when you will officially...

    Teresa, the day has come when you will officially be single again. It may not have been what you really dreamed of, but your focus on being you is admirable and if that cannot be fitted into a...
  3. It is an amazing place to be sure. Happy...

    It is an amazing place to be sure. Happy Anniversary! Ten years is a long time and no doubt when you look back that far what you see is recognizable but looks so different from now. Exposure to all...
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    Lauren, Such an eloquent and beautiful...

    Lauren, Such an eloquent and beautiful statement. I wish you all the best in the shift of your life path. Unification of our sense of self can do exactly what has led you down this new road. I am...
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    To me, the reality is not necessarily parallel...

    To me, the reality is not necessarily parallel with the perception. One of the difficulties is that we live in a society where, for most people, gender and sex ideally follow each other. That is...
  6. Thread: A Question

    by GretchenM
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    There could be a lot of different reasons for...

    There could be a lot of different reasons for what you consider a lack of masculine body form. It could be a low testosterone level, genetics, and a pile of other medical issues. But if your...
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    Hi Bobbi, Another wonderful event in your...

    Hi Bobbi,

    Another wonderful event in your life. So wonderful that you have broken through so many barriers. I don't know where you found that pixie dust, but it is working. :o
  8. Could be, but I doubt it. More likely it is...

    Could be, but I doubt it. More likely it is Kismet.

    More seriously, it is not luck - it is you. It is the person who has some kind of an aura about them of being honest, kind, caring, and lonely....
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    A trans friend referred to this phenomenon as...

    A trans friend referred to this phenomenon as "People are mostly on autopilot and not very aware of their surroundings." Of course, there are always exceptions. Is it is a sign that society is more...
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    One way to approach this at this point is to ask...

    One way to approach this at this point is to ask yourself, "Who of my friends and family really needs to know?" Keep in mind that this is a personal journey and going out among the muggles should not...
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    As terrible as it seems, it might actually be a...

    As terrible as it seems, it might actually be a good thing because it increases honesty. Wives often react in a strong way when this is found out. We all have been trained to think that men are men...
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    This behavior and perspective is not unusual,...

    This behavior and perspective is not unusual, although only some experience it. Mostly it occurs early in the development of the behavior. Some psychologists think that it isn't a real attraction to...
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    You are quite right Helen. Once you order...

    You are quite right Helen. Once you order something you are on their mailing list and any other kind of advertising list and it is forever. You can opt out of email advertising, but eventually it...
  14. She might have compartmentalized her thoughts and...

    She might have compartmentalized her thoughts and preferences. As a friend she may be able to be quite supportive of your lifestyle and interests that could not be supported for some reason when...
  15. Thread: Confused

    by GretchenM
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    Georgia, Sorry about the length of this, but...

    Georgia,

    Sorry about the length of this, but you are dealing with a very complex and serious problem that can be resolved comparatively easily with effort. So, please read on.

    I think you need...
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    To me underdressing is just wearing women's...

    To me underdressing is just wearing women's underthings that function in various ways. What goes on top is the expression of some of the things underneath. To me, it doesn't really become...
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    I think Victoria's idea is a great one for most...

    I think Victoria's idea is a great one for most anybody. Never thought of that. As for you Allison, I suggest going through and selecting those things that most closely represent who you are and not...
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    I know the feeling. I hid my dressing for almost...

    I know the feeling. I hid my dressing for almost 60 years until I had to come out and admit that I did that. My wife was not happy having had this kept from her for over 40 years. She was more hurt...
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    I don't think that is weird. We are all different...

    I don't think that is weird. We are all different and our needs, our ways of satisfying that need vary all over the place. I don't do it, but I think it and the step from thinking it and saying it is...
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    I recommend you dress at home and then go to the...

    I recommend you dress at home and then go to the party. I assume it will be at night so not much to fret about with being in public. I find it amazing the progress you have made in diving into this...
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    I feel that it is best to keep the bedroom and...

    I feel that it is best to keep the bedroom and bedtime traditional until there is a great deal of acceptance and a clear indication that she is OK with it. In these days of #metoo it is not a good...
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    Why do women dress the way they do? Answer - all...

    Why do women dress the way they do? Answer - all of the above.

    Let's go back to some fundamentals. Many psychologists and others in related fields tend to adhere in one way or another to the idea...
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    Glad you enjoyed Denver. It is a fairly open,...

    Glad you enjoyed Denver. It is a fairly open, accepting, and liberal city when it comes to LGBTQ+ issues and the people who are in those spectra. Like everyplace else, there are some areas where...
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    It is a common feeling that when you come out of...

    It is a common feeling that when you come out of the closet you need to tell everyone. The excitement is great and sometimes there is a tendency to throw all caution to the wind. I recommend holding...
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    Here is a little explanation of how this...

    Here is a little explanation of how this "selective seeing" works. It is true most of the time that what you see is not completely what is there but an interpretation. Your eyes don't really produce...
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