Boundaries have been evolving over the years. Before ir was a DADT with the benefits of me getting female gifts on bdays and special occasions, but no dressing in front of her.
Last year we became...
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Boundaries have been evolving over the years. Before ir was a DADT with the benefits of me getting female gifts on bdays and special occasions, but no dressing in front of her.
Last year we became...
Well in my case I see two large roadblocks, my wife and my job.
My wife doesn’t really like Carolina, although I’m dressing more and more at home and we go to the spa for mani pedis together (me in...
Two nice pleated dresses, one romper, a bustier and a pair of dangling clip on earrings, all from my wife. I’m very thankful!
However I still haven’t reached the make up point, but my bday is...
True, I need to be careful with my wife. I’m finding it more and more difficult to keep myself from being who I believe I am. It is a fine balance that I need to keep since in my ideal world I would...
Sure, but not clearly women’s boots. It was more for me, knowing that I’m outside wearing women’s shoes, out in the world and with my wife next to me. That’s what I see as a major step. I...
The dog is a she :heehee:
Macey, absolutely, push a bit here, retreat a bit there... For dinner my wife asked me to please change since she doesn’t want to see Carolina that much. I put on a...
Yup, I was lucky to have never been bullied either. Being a very good soccer player in a country crazy for soccer made my schooling years extremely easy. Many kids wanted to be my friend in primary...
I just came back from walking the dog together with my wife, but this time I managed to do it with my 3” heeled women’s boots! She was adamant at first (DADT-bending relationship), but accepted...
Kimberly, you may be right, I’m also thinking that I may be more TS, but one with a wife and a family. It is not fair to them, in particular to my wife so I have to be careful. My rational side has...
Now I also find myself sitting with my legs crossed in a feminine manner more often than not. I find myself looking at the other guys in the meeting rooms to check how they sit and try to imitate...
I really don’t think she would mind that much. She is already on board with me wearing stockings and wedges around the house (“for medical reasons”: women’s stockings for my varicose veins...
I actually did that the other day. I put one of my dresses in the laundry basket and after about a week looking for it thinking it got lost, I found it hanging among my wife’s dresses. So I’m not...
Great shopping trip!
I love going shopping (so far always in drab) for female clothing and shoes. I find it an experience, always thinking what ifs, but more often than not deciding to go for...
My wife’s boundaries keep shifting a bit. One step forward, one backwards. Today she was less than happy seeing me with my white blouse and bra underneath with the obvious forms on. She seemed ok...
Yesterday we attended a large posh cocktail party where many friends were present. I would have loved to be able to wear a long gown like most of the ladies, but had to be stuck with my boring...
As you rightly point out I would also be concerned about our written history on this and other forums. Could the posts be taken against you/us in a legal fight with a SO? I’ve wondered about it a...
Well, I’ve decided to be more natural about it, with some caution, in front of my wife and the person helping us. I’m going for bkfast with my open toed wedges and pink toenails before our help...
Yup, I needed to run this by my wife, who didn’t like the idea of my coming out to our help at all. As such I had to wear socks with my open toed wedges (fashion disaster but a requirement at home...
Great advice! I have cosmetics that are more than 20 years old. The only advantage is that they won’t do me any harm since they are all dried up. Time to throw them all out and go shopping!!
Tks
Actually out of respect and the vows we exchanged many years ago I do consider her thoughts and situation. She married a man and she finds herself with that man wanting to dress like a woman, she...
I’m interested in hearing the experience of others in their dressing and their wives. Did the SO’s opinions change over the years regarding your dressing? What are the limits they impose and are...
I’m also in a DADT relationship, but one that moves a bit when I push the envelope. As many have said, she hates seeing me dressed and doesn’t want the image of her husband in a dress. She also...
I agree with most answers. Like Kristyn I finally feel at peace with myself and the world, and can put to rest the stress of non-stop thinking about it. Love it, love presenting the girl inside...
During my many years of soul searching trying to find out what was wrong with me and the need to present as a woman whenever given the chance, I read quite a bit of psychiatry and psychology on these...
In my case I may be guilty as charged. But I do it, as Becky and others mentioned, for clarity purposes in the posts.
In the real world I find it easier and even acceptable for my wife that I...