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    "Passing" is a myth. Most who were AMAB can't....

    "Passing" is a myth. Most who were AMAB can't. If, however, your presentation shows that your feminine appearance matters to you, most people, by far, will respect that. I am not saying that people...
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    Let me be crystal clear about this, right up...

    Let me be crystal clear about this, right up front... You have every right to be who you are, even if that means you want to be a bearded lady. Just be clear that presenting in public that way is, to...
  3. Thread: Therapy...

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    1. Yes, I am much more comfortable with a woman...

    1. Yes, I am much more comfortable with a woman therapist. The skill and knowledge that make for a good therapist are not gender-specific, but it is easier to relate to women in that scenario.
    2. I...
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    I worked in EMS for 23 years. If it's not...

    I worked in EMS for 23 years. If it's not medically pertinent, you won't here it commented on. First of all, it would be unprofessional in the extreme, but more directly, it does not play into...
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    And a woman with poor self-esteem, perhaps. That...

    And a woman with poor self-esteem, perhaps. That kind of behavior sells the heck out of romance novels but its unacceptable in the real world.
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    Hi, Charlotte. Your first sentence describes...

    Hi, Charlotte.
    Your first sentence describes gender dysphoria in the first five words, "I hate my male form..."

    The rest of that sentence, "...I will never pass as a female," is true for most of...
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    I think you mean... "I want to pretend to be...

    I think you mean... "I want to pretend to be someone I am not."
    Look, if you define gender non-conformity as "abnormal", then it is likely that you will never be normal. If you acknowledge that...
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    Throwing clothes away does not change who you...

    Throwing clothes away does not change who you are, and does negate your deception.
    How did I do one of the scariest things I've ever done? By accepting who I am and wanting to never again enter a...
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    Bigotry is "deplorable". Period. Defending it as...

    Bigotry is "deplorable". Period. Defending it as an "opinion" does not make it otherwise.
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    Shirley Muldowney. :)

    Shirley Muldowney. :)
  11. Thread: Pride Month

    by Aunt Kelly
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    "...go out and be seen?" The short answer is...

    "...go out and be seen?" The short answer is "yes".
    The longer answer is yes, because every time we interact with those who are not familiar with transgender issues (using the "umbrella" definition...
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    Congratulations. You have proven that acting like...

    Congratulations. You have proven that acting like a normal person, regardless of your presentation, will give the police no reason to mess with you. They are trained to behave just as you've...
  13. Thread: Fetish

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    I do not agree. Yes, more often than not, in the...

    I do not agree. Yes, more often than not, in the context of discussion on this forum, the sexual component is present, but conventional definition is a bit more inclusive......
  14. Sticky: That is exactly what it is; yet another ploy to...

    That is exactly what it is; yet another ploy to garner political support be demonizing "the other". In this case, it's especially despicable because they're pitching it as a "think of the children"...
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    Yes, you are a fetishist. No, I don't consider...

    Yes, you are a fetishist.
    No, I don't consider myself to be an authority, beyond that of one who admits to being rather pedantic, but then I'm not arguing the definition. As you use it, it's...
  16. Thread: Fetish

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    There shouldn't be, but there is. There is also a...

    There shouldn't be, but there is. There is also a tendency for some who fall in the fetish category to be defensive, even to the point of rejecting a term which actually does apply to them.
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    Yes, it is common. A quick look around on this...

    Yes, it is common. A quick look around on this very forum will confirm that. It will also indicate that there's a lot of denial going on, but that's a topic for a different discussion.
  18. Of course it's possible, but at that point the...

    Of course it's possible, but at that point the labels start to fail. Are you really "just a crossdresser" at that point? I'd say "not", but absent any other qualification, I'd also say you're not TS...
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    So... you're saying... that Joe Namath really was...

    So... you're saying... that Joe Namath really was ahead of his time. :)
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    Tiff's suggestion to check out the Psychology...

    Tiff's suggestion to check out the Psychology Today site is a good place to start, but you will want to ask for an "informational interview", where you can ask questions about the caregiver's...
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    If you are suffering from gender dysphoria, you...

    If you are suffering from gender dysphoria, you have a choice; manage it or let it manage you. "Managing" it means understanding, accepting, and pursuing treatment. It does not mean "curing" it. ...
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    Do it. You will not be sorry. Most people will...

    Do it. You will not be sorry. Most people will not notice, or if they do, won't care enough to say anything. Those that speak will be complimentary.

    Do go to a real piercing parlor. The tools and...
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    In most western countries men are allowed to women's clothes, so I have to ask... What is it that you are really asking?
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    What you have related sounds a lot like gender...

    What you have related sounds a lot like gender dysphoria, Mara. No one here can make that diagnosis, so get started on finding a qualified professional who can help your sort things out. Keep in mind...
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    "...beard sort of gives it away." OK, so you're...

    "...beard sort of gives it away."
    OK, so you're a man in a dress (MIAD), and want the confidence to appear in public like that. It is a given that you will, to say the least, raise eyebrows wherever...
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