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  1. Thread: The minimum

    by Tomi
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    I'm struggling with this question too right now,...

    I'm struggling with this question too right now, because I found that if I'm not limitied with my wardrobe, then i get pink fog easily, and get obsessed with the "next" item. So I draw a limit to...
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    It was hard for me, because it was 7 years into...

    It was hard for me, because it was 7 years into our relationship (1,5 years into our marriage) when my CDing desire triggered seamingly out of nowhere. On top of that our first children was born just...
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    Yes, that happens to me too. The last time the...

    Yes, that happens to me too. The last time the pink fog lifted, I decided to stop CDing completely because I came to the conlusion that It just doesn't worth the trouble like in your case. Everyone...
  4. Thread: Fetish

    by Tomi
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    Yes, absolutely. That's the only reason why I got...

    Yes, absolutely. That's the only reason why I got dressed. As long as I can remember I always got the most turned on by watching or recieving oral sex, and one fateful day when I was 27, I started to...
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    Hi All, Thank you for all your responses. It...

    Hi All,

    Thank you for all your responses. It feels good to me that many of you are intrested in my thaughts and eyperiences. After all that's the reason I'm posting about it so someone else can...
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    Update of my journey to stop CD-ing

    Hi All,

    It's been a while since I was here, but I thought I give an update of my progress to anyone who is intrested in it. Unfortunately the original thread has been closed, so I can't post...
  7. Thread: Fetish

    by Tomi
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    It's absoultuely is the case with me. So much...

    It's absoultuely is the case with me. So much that another fetish triggered my crossdressing in the first place when I was 27. I loved to express my feminine side through sexually submassive acts,...
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    JulieC, thank you fro your long response. I'm not...

    JulieC, thank you fro your long response. I'm not gonna argue because I agree with most of it. Right now it makes sense for me to not doing it. I went over pros and cons, and the pros have won so I'm...
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    Hi All, I thought I give an update of my...

    Hi All,

    I thought I give an update of my progress to anyone who is intrested in it.

    I stopped CDing 3 months now. The urge is less powerfull and more distant everyday. Right now I have a...
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    Hi All, Thank you for all your answers, the...

    Hi All,

    Thank you for all your answers, the encouraging ones and the critical ones too. And it was good to read about your personal stories in the matter. I try too be not dilusional or repressive...
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    Hi All, Thank you for all your answers. I...

    Hi All,

    Thank you for all your answers.

    I tried to stress it but maybe I wasn't clear enough which case I'm sorry. I know that there are many types of CDers and I know that for many or most of...
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    Stopping without anxiety and stress

    Hello,

    I want to share my theory/experience about stoppin CDing. I say theory/experience because I stopped only for a month and a half which is not too long and I don't want to rush into any...
  13. Thank you for your answers, I'm glad that it...

    Thank you for your answers, I'm glad that it started a conversation.

    Many of you talked about the hardwire thing which in most cases started in the early childhood. I get it, but I can't help the...
  14. I think you misunderstood my point. I was talking...

    I think you misunderstood my point. I was talking about the cause of the motivation of cding. Of course we do everything because we are motivated to do it but it's good to know sometimes why we are...
  15. Is crossdressing an endless loop of a self-resolving problem?

    Hi all,

    I recently thought about crossdressing and the emotional reason behind it and I have a theory. It's maybe offending to some of you but It's just my opinion and I would love to start a...
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    I started it at 27. I lived really stressful and...

    I started it at 27. I lived really stressful and emotionally overwhelming times and I started doing feminine things as fetish to cope with the stress and balance my feminine side which resulted in...
  17. Thread: Nature or Nurture

    by Tomi
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    Tracii G, I didn't try to dismiss your opinion, I...

    Tracii G, I didn't try to dismiss your opinion, I was just reclecting on it. Of cource I know all about the guilt factor, I expreriened it myself and still does sometimes. I just thought that it...
  18. Thread: Nature or Nurture

    by Tomi
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    A traumatic event can alter someone's psyche in...

    A traumatic event can alter someone's psyche in drastic ways especially at a young age. Theese kind of stories are all over the internet (not just cd stories). And Susan was not trying to blame that...
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    1) Do you regret not telling your spouse? My...

    1) Do you regret not telling your spouse?
    My CDing started two yeras into our marriage and I told her right away.

    2) What regrets do you have if any?
    No but I'm not the regretting type of guy...
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    Maybe the other argument were somehow connected...

    Maybe the other argument were somehow connected to this issue (maybe that was about hiding things too). Maybe it risulted in them being honest to eachother and Michael took the chance as they were in...
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    1) Have you ever told anyone you were a...

    1) Have you ever told anyone you were a Crossdresser?
    Yes, my wife and my best friend.

    2) Have you every shown anyone your pictures?
    No.

    3)How did people take it when you told or showed your...
  22. Thread: Twenty Questions

    by Tomi
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    1) When did you start dressing? Age 28 2) At...

    1) When did you start dressing?
    Age 28

    2) At what age did you pick your name?
    I use my birth name

    3) why did you pick that name ?
    See 2. answere

    4) Are you married, single ect?
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    Contrary to many on this forum, my crossdressing...

    Contrary to many on this forum, my crossdressing started in my adult life three years ago when I was 27. I was going through a hard period in my life, my father passed away, my wife was carrying our...
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