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My dogs don't seem to notice, but one of my therapist's dogs just loves me when im dressed. Im the only one she let rub her belly

Erika, I do feel what you are going through with the separation and divorce. I have spent today sorting out stuff with my wife. I do hope that things work out ok for the both of you.

However, I...

Last month I had someone think I was in my early 30's, which isn't bad for someone who just turned 40.

It has happened to me a lot to the point where I just sleep on the couch all the time. probably by the end of summer she won't be my SO anymore.

but what is important here is not a single...

Trisha,
its probably going to be bad a while. All the problems that your marriage has are going to seem much worse. As much as you are going through unleashing this side of you, your wife is going...

And there are varying degrees of outness. my SO and a few others know about the crossdressing, but only at a theoretical level. They do not know about Gwen. Some friends know about me being Gwen...

For me the excitement was when I looked in mirror and liked what I saw

There have been a lot of threads lately about not keeping our secrets and telling or not telling the ones we love. I got to wondering why do we worry so much about keeping our secrets? The main...

Oh I will freely admit that the marriage between me and my non-supportive wife is not ending solely because of my crossdressing or because I did not tell her until we had been married for over 8...

I am going to agree with renee and suzy and that it sounds like depression. The one thing to know about anti-depression medications is that it will probably take several tries before you find one...

I spent a lot time practicing in the car while driving too and from work. The best advice I read was about the resonance in your chest. Put your hand on your chest when you speak in your normal guy...

Unfortunately we all have our limits on what we can deal with, especially with our romantic partners. It is very hard to love someone unconditionally. And while we might be able to overlook some...

Wendy
I really feel for you. My own marriage has pretty much crumbled apart. And while there was a lot that was not right in our relationship the crossdressing was the catalyst that finally made...

You do need to plan to have THE TALK with your wife. You need to be mentally prepared for every thing. Look over the numerous post here and know what questions you should expect your wife to ask...

I think it is important to be comfortable with your therapist and they need to have a certain comfort level dealing with you. with my previous therapist, whom I had seen many times for other issues,...

This brings up another question: How many of us are left-handed versus right-handed? I myself am left-handed

Ok you found out my big secret: I am a programmer. I can remember back when I was a kid always having an interest in computers, but it wasn't until I was a teenager that I actually experimented with...

Personally I feel more like it is a process of discovery rather than re-invention. So much has been hidden and repressed that I am having to figure out what is already there. The physical changes...

Today was a good day. Friday's are my days that I dress for therapy, but I needed to get some stuff first. So I went dressed into the Walmart. There weren't any problems and on the way out the lady...

6'0" without heels, and I did do a bit of shopping last week in 2.5" heels and I did not notice any one noticing. but on the other hand I decided that i was not going to worry about what any one...

It might be because Wynonna is who you choose to be. and that when someone who knows your evil twin meets you, then you feel like they are getting an upgraded version of your self. But when it is...

The longer you hold back the worse things will be. but you must be mentally prepared for any possibility. My SO was very non-supportive and non-accepting and it causing a bad marriage to break...

Like the other girls have said keep it tasteful and casual. but also keep in mind that you are not dressing for the therapist, you are dressing for you. Its about making you more comfortable and...

Well this weekend I finally weighed in under 200!!!! I had been stalled out for weeks between 201 and 203. Hopefully I can keep the ball rolling

You must have been talking to my wife. She is completely unaccepting.