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If you're dealing with depression then I can't stress this enough: Seek professional help.

I know it may feel like giving in, or that it may make you weak. That's not true.

This is a pretty common question, and IMO it has more to do with context than what you actually look like.

If it's a crowded street, I bet I could pass friends in boymode and they wouldn't even...

The format that this website takes, i.e. that of a classic forum, is on the way out in general. Many message boards are migrating to sites like reddit etc. The UI is generally more user friendly, and...

I know there have been plenty of responses already, but I just wanted to add my 2c.

To start, the way that your bf told you, and the way you responded and the thoughts you had are very similar to...

I don't think it's wise to try and date with the intention of dating someone you know will be accepting of crossdressing from the get go.

It's part of your personality, and you should just date...

This is the reason I started this thread in the first place. I agree that if you don't offer a thought put explanation then you will be lumped into "one of the six". However what if instead of trying...

I will admit that this behaviour is abnormal. I think you'll find that a very large number of the population is abnormal in some way or the other.

However I will not say that it is wrong. A...

While this is certainly true (both in the cd community and in the wider world), I think that mentality can actually be extended to partners. They choose to blame all the problems in a relationship on...

I'm by no means saying that you should ignore all the others in your life just because you have come to terms with crossdressing being a part of who you are. The thinking in my original post extends...

I don't think that not knowing *why* one enjoys something is a problem. Do we know why anyone enjoys anything? Why do some people enjoy licorice and some people hate it? Why do some people enjoy...

I would argue that in a healthy relationship this whole point is moot.

I am *not* detracting from what your wife's saying, I think it's just better said from another angle

When we do nice...

I think this comment is actually quite ignorant. Sure, the post is not 100% about crossdressing, but there are many, many posts that contain less relevant content than this.

I fear that you may...

Many people on these forums and others say that for them, crossdressing is a great way to relieve stress, and to make them fell better when they are down. I'm sort of the opposite. I'm out to an...

I am so much man that I have to crossdress to provide some balance to the force. Kidding ;)



Seriously though, I couldn't have said the above any better. As to WHY gender is a spectrum and is...

I also have never ventured out. It's something I hope to do one day, but I have a few criteria beforehand.

1) Get my look and and outfit so that I am 100% happy with it. So practice some more...

Let me change the question slightly.

Instead of asking "Do I want to transition", you should ask "Am I a crossdresser, or trans?" Don't fall into the trap of thinking "I don't know if I would...

I haven't been out as of yet, but I am making the preparations to do so one day soon. I'll put my own spin on it though.

I am generally quite adventurous. I've been solo skydiving, ridden bikes...

I've recently come out of a 4 year relationship with the main cause for separation being, you guessed it, crossdressing.

Do I worry that I will never be able to find a partner that accepts the...

I wonder though, if the reason that you say you would pick a female form is down the the "novelty factor". As you haven't truly experienced having a female body you feel like you want to try it out....

For the longest time I had myself convinced I was "Just a crossdresser". I've never felt "dysphoria" or had any aversion to living as male. However coming out of a relationship and a few other life...

I used to use the CD label because I was terrified of the possibility that I may not be a cis male. Nowadays I have gotten over the fear and shame of the possibility of being any anything under the...

I hope you had a fantastic time! I hope I'll be following suit soon enough :)

I find that a smile is something that's developing along with my crossdressing. It gets better the more I do it.

It's a combination of feeling silly while in girl mode, and the fact that forcing...

If I was to purge now I might need to take out a credit card to replace everything. I have a modest collection of clothes, but breastforms, hip pads and makeup brushes are at least a few hundred...

To answer the above questions with regard to finishing the year, we have holidays booked that we can't get a refund for. In the here and the now, there's not any problems unless she sees something...