Not so far in over 1000 outings. Of course I don't speak to anyone I know that would be a give away.
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Not so far in over 1000 outings. Of course I don't speak to anyone I know that would be a give away.
I think you are making progress Tiffany. Each time my wife found or saw something the reaction became less and less severe. I think it is partly her fears being overcome and her realisation that...
Just so happens I flew in Australia from Canberra to Brisbane today dressed. Really uneventful as all previous flights have been.
You asked about flying femme internationally. After 4 glorious...
Natural voice with only concession that I might thank someone for opening a door with a very soft 'thank you'.
Feedback has been that folk I talk to already knew I was a male and were quite...
Christmas time was bad ... 4 whole days. There was a time some years ago that I stopped for 3.5 years after my ex told me she was leaving me for a real man.
My suggestion Michelle is to accept that you'll always be recognised as a man in a dress. Most that do will be too polite to comment or simply not care. Others observing the unexpected may comment...
After my first visit with my psychologist dressed male, I asked her about presenting femme. She was very encouraging and later thanked me for trusting her and her staff. She had spoken to them...
Depending on how good you get with makeup, your physical build, your walk, your choice of outfits and many other markers you may blend. That is if you don't speak! But what is the point? That is...
You may be best gaining greater confidence before you dress to stand out. Often I hear or see folk laugh and it would be easy to take it personally. And maybe I should but really its just people...
There are a lot of threads on this site to do with DADT. You should use the search function to locate and read them. Many who started out in a DADT situation have had different experience as no two...
Well said Mikell.
My take (read 'situation') on DADT is that it is constantly evolving sometimes in a positive fashion and sometimes regressing. My wife has moved from threatening suicide almost...
Not DADT then!
To tell or not to tell is a difficult decision.
Coming up to 5 years ago I told my wife of 3.5 years that my desire/need to dress had returned. That started 6 months of some very tough times. ...
I agree with Teresa. It is empowering to be confident to speak with a male voice and interaction with the public removes much of the potential loneliness of a CDer. Your SO might be a short term...
That's great progress Judy. What probably isn't clear yet is her understanding of where you are at with the dressing. If you have been dressing in secret then she may think you have stopped and is...
I've always referred to my dressing as a "need/want". Saves time on analysing the difference. Perhaps abstinence over the last week or so shows it more to be a need but happy to say its a want.
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22 outfits. My gosh a kindred sister:heehee:
and 'yes' to Monday too. Grocery shopping trip planned. Now what to wear?
Always one to find a negative Krisi. No, I'm totally comfortable...
From four or five days a week to ... nothing :sad: What one does at this time of year for their wife who won't share femme time. Grown up children are coming and going. Christmas lunches and...
Jennifer
I fly femme regularly in Australia with male ID, ticket in male name, etc. Absolutely no problem. In fact I am treated extremely well and have frequent interesting conversations with...
Many are missing the point of DADT. It is not for the CDers benefit but for the SO. I would be very happy to share my femme life with my wife, my best friend in my male life, but she wants nothing...
Body and facial hair are a battle for any CDer. Waving a magic wand to rid hair would make transformation so much easier and effective.
My response to wanting to be full time is 'no' while ever...
One advantage of being a senior (and there aren't many) is that I care somewhat less about what people think. In female dressing years I'm also quite young and see myself that way rather than as a...
We often are in agreement Stephanie but, on this one, there is an alternative to Judy's wife being vindictive. My wife made a number of threats (see post #72 above) when I told her my crossdressing...
Firstly the context of my response. I'm fortunate to be out dressed 4 or 5 days a week.
Suddenly Fem is promoting 'opportunities' to present better as a female, ultimately to be able to pass. ...
Judy, I think it is far too early to be able to interpret what your wife is really saying.
My wife's reaction to when I first talked to her about wanting to dress again was extreme. She...