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Kathi, it makes sense to me at any time of the day or night. Those of us that are heterosexual males surely seek the validation of a GF.

We all have to deal with our CDing in our own way. This includes the history and experience of how our SO learns about it. If we can teach each other how to make it less of a shock and less...

I have been Cding since my teens, and mostly keeping it secret. My wife kinda knew but was in denial, I hid it as much as possible.

Then during one period in my mid-50s when the urge was strong, I...

My male mode is "business casual" and the very definition of drab. Enfemme, I like to dress smart and sexy. I am still trying to find the "age-appropriate" balance.

I agree with Kathi and several others - go with the size that matches your frame. Too small and you may not feel right, too large and you will stand out too much. (Unless that is what you want.)

I posted earlier that it is both and more, but here is another thought. With age (maturity?) it seems that for me and many others it is less often about sex, and more often about stress relief and...

Actually, I do not really disagree with you. My dig was at those churches who preach that any variation from their own ways is a sin. On the other hand, maybe these churches are not the same ones...

Count me among those for whom the urge comes and goes. It seems that there are many of us like this. For me, I cannot tell what will start it - stress and the need to find relaxation, a quiet time...

I have shaved both my legs and chest (just the upper chest because my wife likes the hair over the "rounded" part!). They grow back in about the same time - except the upper chest is now totally...

So, if I understand this correctly, the pageant was to raise money. If you CD for money it's OK, but if you do it for fun, God will punish you.

I feel justly chastised by several posts here. I DO feel that I should be doing more, but I re-iterate - taking such action is not just my decision. My wife must have a say in it. She has come to...

I agree that we are doing not near enough to gain acceptance by the rest of society, but as Shelly says, our actions affect more than ourselves. I am nervous that being out would have a negative...

One of my recurring fantasies is to be forcibly feminized by one or more GGs. It is pure fantasy because first, I am already pretty well feminized and two, my SO shows no inclination to dominate me...

I have been for physicals both recently leg-shaved and with several months of growth. My doctor may notice, but does not comment on it. Also, I am left alone to change into one of these...

So here is a question for the lawyers among us. Assuming that hiding our true identity as GMs might open us up to sexual-offender charges, should we declare ourselves on the application form as...

I see hints of the woman I would like to present, but my features still seem very masculine to me and my make up skills are not sufficient. Sometimes when I manage a better job, especially around the...

What a beautiful time you had. Thanks for tell us all about it. It is so nice to know that there are accepting SOs out there.
Now just take it one small step at a time and enjoy the moment.

More feminine face, starting with the nose.
Smaller Adam's apple
Less body hair
Wider hips (but my butt is not too bad)
More hair on the crown and temples (begone male pattern baldness)
... then...

You keep starting threads that are all about how you do not fit in with the rest of us. How many responses will it take until you learn that we are all different and deal with this in our own way. ...

Yes to both. It is also sensual, recreational and therapeutic. And probably more ...

I have no idea whether I tear up more or less than other CDs or GGs... Even speeches by our new president make me tear up.

Why, after 17 years, do you feel the need to tell her now? If we knew the reason, we might be better able to answer your question.

First let me say that I am not disturbed or offended. I have learned that each of us must deal with this aspect of our personalities in our own way, but it seems that you have not yet found your way,...

I am not really "afraid" to meet other male CDs, but since I am a heterosexual CD, I prefer to socialize with women. Although I did not understand it at the time, this has been true ever since I was...

I have read many of the threads that relate to your curse, and I have responded in a few of them. But I do not have the time to keep up with all of the exchanges, so please forgive me if I missed...