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2 and 3 definately but leading an almost 24/7 life as a woman is very calming,

Easy for some not easy for others my dressing was severely suppressed because of the work I did, nothing lasts for ever and 2 divorces followed finally finding my kids after trying for close on 20...

Kim,
For sure what you say is bang on, whilst Dianne is friendly towards me there is absolutely no reason to cast either of them adrift, I will endeavour to keep what there is between us safe,...

It's certainly a thought, but before Christmas there is our usual brasserie morning, every Saturday I go to the same brasserie for coffee and usualy Paul and Dianne go as well if they are there next...

Helen,
You raise a good point re Steve, i have tread very carefully with this just in cas Steve has said nothing and the ball is entirely in Paul's side of the net.
Micki,
Paul has not been such a...

Another friend down the pan! when will this all end? am I going to have no expat friends near me now? I have no clue as to what to expect next. The latest Developement happened this last Saturday,...

Think twice before purging, could what one considers needs throwing out come back into fashion again? if so keep it store it in a vacuum pack bag it will stay fresh. if something does not fit any...

never been attracted enough to go to one least of all dressed, what's the pont?

Just to be ME, basically, i like to dress and I feel more comfortable with myself when dressed. it's fast becoming a normal way of life for me despite losing 4 friends (two couples) along the way.

Hi Ringo,
I have had enough trauma to last a lifetime, and lived in countless places none of them feeling totally like a permanent home i would say to you that shifting to a totally new country just...

What a laugh!! I bet it happens to me one day

Jeanine, Absolutely the right way to deal with what was thrown at you , being flustered, denying and so forth just goes to make things difficult admitting right on the spot yes I do shows we have...

Doc you need to speak with Leroy Troy he had problems with 5lbs of Possum in the headlights of his car!!!

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Doc that is sad and expensive too i hope you get something...

Just be yourself! it is surprising what people don't notice occasionaly I have a casual look to see what is happening around me rarely do i see anything to cause me concern. take things slow and...

I often read threads on this very subject and wonder how many caught good and proper and what happens later. I am only too greatful to be living on my own and can please myself.

Abbie you have acheived great things just by conquering the alcohol issue, have strength for the future, be true to your beliefs and talk as much as you can with wifeling I always say there has to be...

Many wise words here all I can say is in accord with tje others hold off throwing everything way and try and talk some more with your wife, there has to be a way through this.

Macey it's not weird it's exciting! nervous about going maybe? but once you get there bearing in mind so many know about you it should not be such a big hurdle to jump over, unless you have not been...

Thats not purging, you just made way for new lovely things! go spend girl!!

Abbie you sure sailed close to the wind but you had the inner strength to pull yourself out of things shows strong courage and character I hope the future holds good for you.
best wishes

SaraLin,
No need to backtrack at all I should have been more explicit with the beginnings of this unfortunate bit of my life pat has got my phone number and email its all down to them now.

Sounds like all is well, beware the booze this time round, in any case have fun and enjoy yourself.

SaraLin, To expand a bit Pat had told him everything about my dressing before he came home he knew fully what my lifestyle was all about about and when I finally saw him at home yes I was dressed but...

Don't take this the wrong way but all we are doing is being helpful to you it does look to me as though you are thinking of just youreself you must also think of and discuss fully with your wife what...

Absolutely dead as a Dodo! I think in town there may been a bit of trick or treating but where i live the folks for the most part are of retirement age, no parties nothing.
BORING!!