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This Youtube TedX talk by CiCi says it all, and truly continues to inspire me.

https://youtu.be/fw30yjccnD4

What also inspires me are the words of the 'Desiderata':
(Paraphrased) "Change the...

6' barefoot, 140 pounds, size 6 in dresses and jeans. Size 8 in business slacks and skirts, because I'm not a "working girl".... wink, wink

This is an issue for you?

Do you identify & present as a woman or a man?

Pull him to the side one day, and just TELL him that "I am Teresa, my pronouns are her and she." And if he persists in...

Good for you! And condolences for your Moms passing.

See? the world didn't end, no cops or reporters showed up on your doorstep, the world continues to spin on its axis. :)

Really? You feel intimidated the transgendered? Why? In what way are TS/TG dominating this section?
If you and others truly feel that way, may I suggest asking the Owner & Mods to make a "CD only"...

If most of the people you work with know that you dress, please clarify the issue here, I'm confused.

I recently had to decline going to a memorial service for my beloved sister, because the...

@vanphair

Friggin labels, right?

Ya see, some terms confuzzle me.

For instance, what is the difference between bisexual, and pansexual?

As a transgender woman, perhaps I shouldn't respond, but. I've never let propriety stand in the way of me shooting my mouth off... LOL

As a guy, I tried to avoid looking at my face in the mirror. ...

But it does concern crossdressers!

I sincerely hope that my previous post isn't construed to mean that I exclude CD's from the transgender label, people should be free to express themselves as...

Wow, conflating much?

There is literally a world of difference between someone who occasionally wears panties, or dresses up, and someone living full-time, transitioning, or post-operative.
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vanphair, why would I disagree with your statement? And in no way did I state that people shouldn't characterize, or label themselves in any way they see fit.

And I totally agree with your...

And that is felt by most transpeople, not the clothing, but attitudes, feelings, thoughts, and actions. I don't get excited by putting on my underwear and clothes, but I do feel comfortable and...

@Mezzanine

So explain, please, the differences between 'genderfluid', non-binary, and 'genderqueer'

"Gender fluid", from my understanding, is a non-binary status, wherein someone who identifies as "GF", can appear as male one day, female another, or completely androgynous another.

A genderfluid...

EXACTLY Roberta! I will never, ever be my daughters "MOM", and I don't want to be. That title is reserved for the woman who bore her.

I often refer to my ex-wife in conversations with friends and co-workers. It really isn't that big of a deal. Sometimes I might wryly preface the comment with: "In another life..."

As to the old...

They do seem rather stiff :straightface:

Well, this topic certainly made me shake my head. Not being judgmental, whatever works for you honey.

If I'm going to cuddle with a doll, he is certainly going to have a pulse.....

And 'yes' I...

be YOU!

If the option is there, take it. From a practical standpoint, if you get pulled over by the Police, with 'NB' as gender, it won't matter how you are dressed.
Unless, perhaps, if you are...

My heartfelt condolences for your loss Teresa >>HUGS<<

@jeanine38

Please give us a list of these 'female privileges', if you would be so kind.

Why wouldn't you accept the compliment? The hairstyle suits you, and the random GG must have thought so too.

I've had some great convo's with GG's that simply started off with them saying " I...

vegetable oil on a cotton ball. Works wonders. AND you don't scrub yourself raw

ICK! You DON'T clean off old make-up?

Hang on... YOU were able to fit in the doll's dress?

And you later dressed in your sister's clothes? And that you believe that your parents were aware of your youthful crossdressing? How did you...