I would have to vehemently disagree with the creation of a transgender or CD'ing group like the two mentioned in OP. It's a war that can't and won't be won. By any one.
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I would have to vehemently disagree with the creation of a transgender or CD'ing group like the two mentioned in OP. It's a war that can't and won't be won. By any one.
Want to dress. Almost never need.
I'm not sure I understand the question. I don't know if I've been "hard on myself" about being a TG. But I've definitely been "hard on myself" on a variety of other aspects of life.
I'll answer the questions in order they are posed, so as to avoid several quote tags.
1: Yes, it means a lot to me. Lots of things go into how I would define a "man." Putting food on the table...
I know there's a really big transgender... group/club/ I dunno what, in the city that I live in, but I've never made any attempt to contact them. Nor have I ever been aware of any one on the TG...
I will always see it as disturbing if any one hits on me.
I have thought about this question before. I've never been convinced any of this is a "need." Thus it's a "want" to me.
I am not happy being in the closet. But I'm not coming out again.
Laura: Never.
I just don't really laugh about anything concerning this aspect of my life. And especially not on this site. I'm already tense enough as it is, but when I come here the tension and...
I'd love to hear what you think of those who have no choice. Personally, I wouldn't know what a female looks like nude if it wasn't for porn. Nor would I truly comprehend what sex comprises of.
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Sorry, but no, never laughed at this whole thing.
I've never cried while dressed. Of course, I don't cry at all, so... Eh.
I used to, but not anymore. Just reminds me of how far I am from where I want to be.
Only once, and that was years ago. I don't remember what happened in it.
Dolovewell: Well, I'm asking as an overall thing. I've noticed so many here placing so much emphasis on going out that first time, and I just wanted to know why. But oh wells.
Lisa-wb: I'm a TS. But GG's don't go around wearing nothing but skirts and dresses. To me, the logic just doesn't add up.
I feel like I'm not understanding why it's so important to go out in public while dressed...
... I'm... Not going to do that. I'm fine in the basement.
My rule has evolved into "stop doing it." Too many risks, no reward.
I hide everything from every one. No one to trust around here.
I wish some one had told me if I don't do it the way every one else does, then it doesn't count.
Sue, a true martial artist won't care what you're wearing... Unless it can affect the combat itself. :p Most likely, the people at your class will give you a glance and think "Eh, okays." then move...
I don't want to be a negative Nancy, or devil's advocate, or general all-around jerk here...
I'm one of those who doesn't really have respect for those who go out in public. There're dozens of...
My perception has not changed in the slightest. Guess I'm still thinking that "one thing."
The look. If I don't pass, on any level or definition of that word, then it's not good enough in my mind.