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Habitat for Humanity always needs office and construction volunteers. There are many women doing both kinds of work. Many nonprofit organizations such as Care Connect, Red Cross, Volunteers for...

Hi, The title of the book mentioned by Kathleen is "My Husband Betty". Please take her advice and slow down. Be open with your wife and answer all of her questions honestly, if you don't know...

I'm a baby about the pain of plucking/tweezing. Twenty-two years ago when I under went electrolysis I had the technician wax my eyebrows and every week she would permenently remove any strays that...

You tell us you are quite the "chicken" about talking to your girlfriend. Please realize that this isn't all about you, but about your relationship. This keeping your secret to yourself affects how...

Hi,

Back in 1989 I had a similar problem at the Univ. of Colorado. Finally I brought my legal name change information with me and talked to one of the clerks. She told me there was nothing she...

John,

You asked about feminizing. You mention that your ancestry includes hairiness. This may be a good time to consider electolysis for permanent hair removal. I found it helped in passing...

May,

If you really want to know, check the weekly crime map for Boulder, CO. You're online and its easy to google it.

Karan

Hi May,

Boulder has been having a fairly high incidence of RAPE, ASSAULTS, and ROBBERIES along pedestrian and bike routes. If you are out late at night dressed en femme you can expect an officer...

I was in a car accident way back in 1988. I was in Denver driving on a main street when a gal pulled out from a stop sign and I couldn't stop in time. We called the police and when he came he took...

I'll never post a picture since I enjoy my privacy and feel for my security. I transitioned decades ago. When I consider that I've worked for companies that have employed staff who are deeply...

About 25 years ago I was driving home from a late night (after midnight) gathering at a transgender meeting in a city 30 miles from my town. Traffic was minimal and while I was driving down the...

If you truly don't care what others think, why didn't you tell your doctor that you cross dress to relieve stress. And every physical or doctor visit I've ever had starts with a check of blood...

Personally, I wouldn't want to be contacted by another transgendered person just because we share an affinity for clothes. I enjoy sharing much more common interests than crossdressing related...

Who the heck cares? With the real problems the world faces this just seems pathetic... Whatever....

Karan

Mikaela,

I'm not sure what you mean by "hitting a wall". Maybe you are looking for a different experience. May I suggest you try a week end or a holiday in which you are dressed full time either...

Personally, I'm not the least bit offended. I've been to Paris France and many young ladies sunbathe topless and it is no big deal. In Boulder, CO many gals sunbathe topless and the law backs them...

Please read the "sticky" on keeping yourself safe. Most women do not as a rule go out alone in the evening. It does depend on just how feminine you look, but one of the safest places would be...

Hi Polkadotfarrah,

Please read the "sticky thread" above on safety. Rarely, if ever have I seen a woman out at night alone. She doesn't do it because it isn't safe. A much safer venue is during...

Nigella,

As was mentioned above I really don't understand this thread, especially as you say it pertains to all TG's. As you suggested I re-read post No. 9, but after re-reading the post I think...

Hi Jennyfir,

I really think what you're doing is fantastic. Being in college is wonderful time to explore who you are. I'm glad you're taking the time to dress the way you choose to. From your...

May I suggest, if I were that girl staring I would be wondering if you were okay as it is so rare to see a gal dressed so nicely out, alone by herself after dark as it isn't safe; no matter the...

I have a friend who I love dearly who a year ago started using the 'N' word in reference to blacks. For awhile I kept my tongue, but after cringing so much and explaining to her several times that...

There have been scientific studies way back in the 1970's and 80's by Kinsey and Johnson. Through extensive interviews it was noted about one in ten men identified as homosexual while one in a...

Hmm,

Sleeping with bras and/or forms is "bad for your health"? I'm unsure if this is supposed to be fact or opinion, but I do know for years I've purchased "sleep bras" and was assured by the...

mygirlsgirl,

Thank you so much for your pertinent words to this thread. I appreciate your point of view and in fact I've copied your post to put up on my board to remind myself to continue...