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Not me. I'm trying to see how far I can expand on it. I wasted too many years fighting to deny myself as it is. I have ground to make up!

Besides, its not something I can give up. Tried it. ...

I told my wife all about my dressing about 20 years ago. But, that was only after about 17 years of marriage. Thing is, during those 17 years, I never dressed at all, though I wanted to and would...

I've been shaved for nearly a year. At first, I thought that I would stop for summer, because I wear a lot of guy shorts, and felt people would think it strange. But, I shaved anyway and glad I...

I would! Its a bucket list item to get into a wedding dress at least once. Would love to go renew vows with my wife......maybe in Vegas!

I don't think my values have changed so much because of my T-ness, so much they changed with age. I've always valued the same things. But, I think you just learn to 'not sweat the small stuff',...

Congratulations! That's something! Way to go, GF!

Isha, that's exactly where I'm at with this! Too many things to still do!!!!!

Wow Susan, that's quite a wardrobe! How do even know what you have? Congratulations! It really is all about being...

I think I agree with the non-confrontational responses that have been suggested.

Sometimes humor is a better option. Instead of being openly defiant, maybe just smile and ask them, 'So did you...

No doubt that I most definitely could. In an instant! Not only could I, but I would prefer to. I don't think I would have said that a year ago, but that was then.

I admire beauty, and see the girls out here for what they present themselves to be.....all beautiful women.

That is such a wonderful story! It makes me smile just thinking about it. That is a terrific experience!

Hi Teresa.

First of all, just for context, my wife is very supportive, so I'm coming from a different place, but there was a time when she had no clue, so I understand some of where you're at now....

I don't think that I would say that mine switched. 'She' has always been there, so its more like I've allowed my female identity to emerge in the last year, rather then change. Partly because...

Certainly lots of good advice here. Like most of us, I've guilty over time of many of the no-nos. One thing that I found that helps immensely is to learn to be a good observer. In my case, I've...

My family definitely comes first. Which is the main reason that my dressing was very sporadic while we raised our kids. I basically limited it to almost nothing until recently becoming empty...

It would have to be my wife. She has always been a stylish dresser. For a while, she worked at a high end clothing shop, so was able to access some really nice designer clothes at prices we...

That is true Launa. Its said that people often don't see what's right in front of them. Context is everything, ithink.

For me, we were in Kohl's, and it was unintentional on her part. There were number of women browsing the sale racks right near where i paused to look at a sweater dress that caught my eye, that was...

Launa, my voice is a giveaway, too. I've always been soft spoken, but its something I have to consciously work on.

I don't worry too much about being recognized when I go out. About the only time I feel I'd be recognized is pulling out of the driveway, and only then because my car and location would give someone...