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Georgi, first, I am SO very sorry for what you are going through. I can only imagine the hurt that both of you are feeling right now, and I truly hope you're able to find a way through this.
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I don't know about that conspiracy Karren! Once my wife saw me in a pair of her jeans, she decreed that I could wear all the skirts I wanted, but women's pants were off limits! It might be some sort...

I'm sorry, but how do responses like these have any bearing on the original post? Do we know that Notsurewhattodo's boyfriend either wants to wear makeup or be a maid?

Sheila, as you probably...

I'm sorry Joni, I think that's an unhealthy comparison to make. Saying "at least" he's not one of those truly awful things suggests that crossdressing is still bad, just not "as bad" as being a...

Jill makes a great point. A lot of the advice you'll hear is based on what a lot of crossdressers might fantasize that their wife/girlfriend would do for them. As she says, that's not necessarily the...

Wow Vickii, I'm glad to know how satisfied you were that you so successfully "obliterated" my comments just by simplifying all of humanity's diversity down to one stereotype.

Too bad I didn't...

Hi, and welcome

First, you should probably be prepared to talk with him sooner rather than later and let him know you know. If you found this site because you know he reads it, then it's a good...

Ok, I'll bite:

It seems pretty obvious to me. They're coming and talking to you and making those comments because they're intrigued by what you're wearing and how you are/are not pulling it off....

Hi Koka,

You've gotten some great responses already, but let me throw my 2 cents in as well...

I said as much iin a reply to another recent post, but so many of us are brought up with the...

You just made my head aspolde a little bit with that ponderous question!

Seriously though, I guess I'd have to agree with most of the others - it's all about intent for presentation, so one more...

Hi Vanysh,

One of your questions asked (if I read it correctly), why some of us feel perverted for wanting to crossdress. I can answer that in four words that I'll never forget my ex-wife saying:...

And in the "use it or lose it" category, it's just as easy to lose the confidence when you stop going out. A change in circumstances (albeit a good one) has made it such that I haven't gone out in a...

With all due respect Rikki, it sounds as your life as a woman became not only your first priority, but your ONLY priority. Unfortunately, most of us are not so lucky as to be able to disregard all...

Casey totally stole my thunder, but my answer would have been what I posted earlier - I don't think the term crossdresser speaks to how much a person dresses.

Panties under work clothes =...

Kali,

You made the latest in what has been a long line of great points about perception, tolerance, and individuality. There's not much I can add to the overall argument, which is basically - be...

Hi Msthighhigh,

Everyone so far is correct - this is a very delicate situation, and it's wonderful that you are considerate of his feelings in this case. The fact is though, that no matter how you...

My Lord people! This is not a story on Fictionmania, and this is not about what you would have LOVED to have happen to you! This is about what happens between two adults in a serious relationship!...

Deanna,

With all due respect, I couldn't disagree more. This isn't a game, this isn't about seeing what he will do or won't do. This is about an adult relationship, and everything it entails.

I...

Hi Lizbeth,

First, I would completely agree with Tekla, I would definitely try to get this out into the open before your wedding. Just as any crossdresser should "come out" to his SO prior to a...

Hi Cath,

If I may add my two-cent's worth, I would definitely suggest you take to heart what Shari-Ann and Kimberly said. I don't know if I can say it any better myself, but I'll try. And I'll...

I would agree that if at all possible, ask your wife if she would be willing to read some literature on the issue or see a counselor, either by herself, or with you.

Above all, do NOT try to...

In my experience, as long as they are friends, women are usually very accepting, and often encouraging of us. But I think, as was mentioned, that this is because they aren't threatened and have...

Helly,

In addition to Zappos, try Payless.com and Nordstrom.com. They're on the opposite ends of the spectrum in terms of price, but both have a great selection of shoes and boots in larger sizes....

Angie,

While I can't speak specifically to the question of whether Studio Lites is a good place to shop online, I have had good experiences going there in person.

Studio Lites is run by a...

While Nyx may have presented her argument in a way that is offensive to many, if not most cd/tg folk, she also exposes a very true reality, and one that even worries me when it comes to this forum.
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