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    In most cases the job applicant's answer to that...

    In most cases the job applicant's answer to that question is not available to the hiring manager. It is the type of thing that HR Departments track to assess their employees' diversity.
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    I am a ski instructor and almost everything I...

    I am a ski instructor and almost everything I wear to work is from the women's section except my uniform. My pink and white striped ski socks elicit smiles and encouraging comments from female...
  3. Thread: So that happened

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    I've had a couple of similar events - both were...

    I've had a couple of similar events - both were handled uneventfully and professionally by the doctors. Once was during my annual physical. I had either forgotten or didn't care that my toenails were...
  4. Hi Leslie, I am a similar age (approaching 60)...

    Hi Leslie,

    I am a similar age (approaching 60) and also have recent blood pressure changes. I check it regularly and record it. As recently as last spring it was in the "good" range, at or...
  5. Thread: Our story

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    That's a delightful "origin story," Katie. Thank...

    That's a delightful "origin story," Katie. Thank you for sharing it. Communication is the single biggest factor in a successful relationship, and you certainly started off on the right foot!
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    The butterfly metaphor is much more pleasant to...

    The butterfly metaphor is much more pleasant to think about than a tapeworm, but doesn't quite fit me as a crossdresser. I'm not struggling to emerge from a cocoon to become someone / something...
  7. I've been going to my small-town day spa to get...

    I've been going to my small-town day spa to get my chest and back waxed once a month or so. Last month I didn't plan ahead very well and am quite sure that the bra marks were still there, despite...
  8. Thread: Who is a pilot?

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    Great timing on this question! I just got current...

    Great timing on this question! I just got current again with my pilot license after 30 years away from aviation. Now i am shopping for a plane to work on my instrument rating. It’s likely I’ll be...
  9. Thread: Beards

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    Those of us that seek to balance masculine and...

    Those of us that seek to balance masculine and feminine expression have to find a compromise within ourselves that we can live with. In my case the mustache of 30+ years had to go when the desire to...
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    Welcome, Karen! DADT is "Don't Ask Don't...

    Welcome, Karen!

    DADT is "Don't Ask Don't Tell." The significant other knows, but is not accepting or tolerant and does not want to participate, see, or even discuss their partner's crossdressing....
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    That was very brave, Jasmine. Great job! There...

    That was very brave, Jasmine. Great job! There has to be trust between you and your counselor for her to be effective. You've shown that you trust her, and she showed that she would not judge you. I...
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    Welcome Jasmine! I would think that any...

    Welcome Jasmine!

    I would think that any counselor worth their salt would want you to share and to be open about all the challenges in your life, including those that your CDing brings. That...
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    I need to apologize, Kim. I misread your post...

    I need to apologize, Kim. I misread your post having overlooked the "seldom" in the phrase "DADT seldom seems to ‘improve’ with time or experience." Although my sample size is only 1, DADT did not...
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    I don't think so. In my experience DADT only...

    I don't think so. In my experience DADT only improved when I made a conscious effort to improve it through communication. Until I pushed the issue my SO ignored this important facet of who I am and...
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    I told my wife before we got married 40+ years...

    I told my wife before we got married 40+ years ago. She said she didn't have a problem with it initially, and we did a bit of bedroom play with me dressed (or perhaps "back seat of the car" play......
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    I'm more of a Becky. I underdress always to...

    I'm more of a Becky. I underdress always to maintain the connection with my inner femininity and dress andro in my daily life (i.e. almost always in women's jeans and shoes or boots). My daily work...
  17. Thread: A little update

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    Yes, good luck to you both! I think there is...

    Yes, good luck to you both! I think there is something to this "you be you" thing. Every relationship is different, but I believe that communicating is almost always the way to go. My wife has known...
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    My wife has known of my CDing since before we...

    My wife has known of my CDing since before we married 40 years ago. Her tolerance has waxed and waned over time, but she has never been comfortable helping me shop. When she learns of my having gone...
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    I love all of this. To borrow a phrase: "you be...

    I love all of this. To borrow a phrase: "you be you!" Too many of us (especially me) are so self-conscious that we put far too much energy into what others are thinking of us rather than doing what...
  20. I am somewhere in the middle of the gender...

    I am somewhere in the middle of the gender spectrum. I'm happy when doing guy things as a guy, and would be happy doing girl things as a girl. That said, my mother had the greatest influence on my...
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    Chantal, you look lovely. I absolutely understand...

    Chantal, you look lovely. I absolutely understand your choice of washroom and might have made the same choice myself. The person that called you out should mind their business.
  22. My wife noticed and doesn't like it, but doesn't...

    My wife noticed and doesn't like it, but doesn't seem to be a big deal. My adult daughter noticed and asked me about it. I replied that leg massages, such as we have had when getting pedicures...
  23. My wife knows about it. I've mentioned it twice...

    My wife knows about it. I've mentioned it twice that I can remember. This week I sent her a link and offered to help her register, but she has not shown any interest in checking it out that I know of.
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    That is a wonderful surprise! Have fun and I hope...

    That is a wonderful surprise! Have fun and I hope it leads to many more fun pretty excursions!
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    That sounds like a fun trip, Jessica! I travel...

    That sounds like a fun trip, Jessica! I travel for business a lot, and often get in some shopping. It always takes me a while to work up the nerve to shop lingerie, but once I "commit" and enter the...
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