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In real life it doesn't happen. Few if any GG's would get pleasure feminizing a male. I'm not a shrink so I won't try to explain why the fantasy is enjoyed by many of us. But let's face it, most...

We need to stand up and be upfront with the world. Until we do, we will never be accepted. Caitlyn Jenner has done this, and I, for one, thank her for it.

I think it's an offshoot of urbanization. Residents of larger cities tend to be less judgmental. This is shown not just in their treatment of (and in my experience, acceptance of) us, but also in...

I lived half my life in and around Dallas; also several years in Houston. My #1 suggestion: don't worry!! Even in Big D, the buckle of the Bible Belt, people could care less about a transgendered...

Honesty and "sharing" tend to be overrated. Most gg's don't want a tg spouse, so in most cases honesty will, at best, lead to a DODT arrangement, or, at worst, to divorce. But then, as many have...

First, with respect to security cameras, WHO CARES? I recently worked at Target stores in Dallas area and Minneapolis area for about four years. I can assure you that the last thing a store "team...

Yes, I've been to SF and loved it, BUT allow me to put in a word for the flyover zone.

I've lived in Houston, Dallas, Austin, Wichita, and Minneapolis
(Yes, I'm not young anymore). I've been out...

To be fair, you would need to ask our spouses also. Now you are getting a lot of feedback from those who've had a burden lifted from their shoulders, and none from those who've had a great...

I do recall, vividly, being with friends at about age ten or eleven and realizing, suddenly, that those other boys really and truly did not desire to be girls. Until then I more or less assumed other...

You'd best stay clear of Mitt.

Leslie, don't kid yourself, it's not "just clothes". Not at all. It's so much more than that. Many of us refuse to admit it, even to ourselves. Easier to paint this bright line to separate us from...

It does seem that some Texans are rather thin skinned (Robyn). Seems to me that the state that gave us GW surely can't get on a high horse.

That said, Jessica, I must add that as a Yankee who has...

You probably crossed that line when you were born. Maybe even nine months before then. After that, you're just along for the ride.

Me, I try to be as passable as possible. But really, I don't care that much. I find myself more often than not frequenting places where I'm known to be TG (e.g., a local Starbucks, a nearby grocery...

My son is in his mid-20's. We practice "don't ask don't tell". But does he know? Of course. Probably has for at least ten years. Kids snoop. Kids are very perceptive. But blood is blood; even if...

Due to the draft and war in Viet Nam, I enlisted in the Air Force in 1971. Four years is a long time. Believe me, you cannot keep a secret in the military if it involves physical objects, like...

Like many here, I was raised Catholic, went to Catholic school, alter boy, etc., etc..., and for the most part I loved the church. But that was many years ago.

Now, here in Minnesota, all the...

As has already been pointed out, "out" has more than one meaning. Anyway, I choose to often, almost daily, be out in the world as a woman because that is when I feel most honest, that is when I...

I've been there and must say the resort area is more American than many areas of Dallas, Houston, or San Antonio. I don't think you'll have at problem at night, but be careful during the daylight...

Out and about, dressed..., and embarrassed?? No way! I feel proud when I'm out, even when I am read. Empowered might be the current "in" word to use: I'm "empowered" when I sit in Starbucks,...

Samantha, I've been out quite a bit since moving to the twin cities six months ago, with no problems to date. Haven't been to the Mall of America yet, as I live kinda far away (10 or 12 miles), but...

I told my wife a few months after our wedding. It led to a couple of very tough weeks. She never accepted that part of me, and eventually we too reached a DADT sort of compromise. Other things...

For better or worse, loneliness is part of the human condition. Depending upon your personality (which is not yours to choose), it may be unavoidable. Don't blame it entirely upon crossdressing....

Gays have fought the fight. Even now, they continue to fight against the bigotry of the McCain-McConnell-Boehner stand on "don't ask don't tell". Until very recently gay sex was "the love that dare...

IMHO, very few of us who go out frequently suffer such dire consequences. In fact, I'd say that few TG's suffer any negative consequences from going out dressed. Maybe in smalller cities it's...