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Sounds like a lot of fun!

And kudos to your GF's friends for being so accepting.

My wife knows nowt, so my best guess is she would say a definite - none!

Something good coming out of something sad. That's a kind thing to do Amanda. Hopefully you can have a bit of fun with your 'new' hair too!

It's always painful to watch loved ones going through...

Tricky, (s)he may have been out in 'stealth mode' in which case they may not want you noticing. I don't know if I'd go up to someone I didn't know and start talking about what they were wearing,...

Ilene, I'm sorry honey but I don't have anything useful to add except to say you aren't alone; there's a whole bunch of us here that you can come to for help, advice, or just to rage and rant if you...

Crystal,

That's a well-written, insightful post honey, thank you for sharing.

To be honest, I quite like the idea of being my own sleazy non-existant girlfriend.
Yes, I talk to 'her' all the...

It's natural to focus on the 5%. Do 'we' focus on the 5%? Absolutely, cos we don't want to be in it.

Honey there is no such thing as too old. There was a story in our local paper a couple of years...

Labels. They're just labels. The definition of a label changes over time, so while one may have been labelled as a 'tranny' a couple/three decades ago, these days it's almost unacceptable to even use...

Right now, I'd take it. I have the desire, but being closeted I lack the opportunity and frankly, it's no fun dressing up on your own. CD-ing has become a source of stress and frustration for me in...

Out of the blue my 6 year old son decided he wanted his nails painted. He's an outdoors-y, football, muddy garden type of child and he happily sat while my wife painted his finger and toe nails. He...

I am a mirror-swisher too, I can't help it. It doesn't mean everyone likes or does it. I get to wear a skirt or a dress so rarely though that it is still a treat to twirl.

It always feels better...

Such good advice there, and in a lot of this thread. If you know, and he knows you know, personally I would say you two need to have a conversation that, ok, may be uncomfortable for you both, but...

I guess I've never been asked straight out, but I've got used to shopping for Becca now so I'm pretty comfortable browsing and such. If I was asked, I guess I'd just try and be honest.

xx Becca xx

Wow, that is GREAT news! Good luck to you honey, it sounds like you've cracked it. Hats off to your family for being supportive too, that's a lovely thing. The further I got reading your post, the...

In boy-mode I'm just about still in my 30's (just!) but Becca feels about 25. Whether she looks 25 is another matter.........

xx Becca xx

I'm not too far from 40, and still blessed with my own, slightly wavy, blonde hair. Having seen most of my friends lose theirs over the last 15 years, I know how lucky I am. It's not had more than a...

This time of year, in the UK at least, it's a piece of cake. I only started doing it this year but as the weather got colder it was easier to conceal the silky layers under the boy-layers.

And,...

This is it for me too, I underdress because it's what I can get away with in my world. If you are lucky enough to be accepted in your world dressed as a woman then that's good for you, but for some...

Hi Gemz,

It's only a shame if you want to do it all the time, but we're all treading different paths. Personally I think if I was Becca the whole time it would become normal and, for me, some of...

Debra that's terrible news, I'm so sorry. Be rocks for each other and you will pull through this dark time.

Wishing you peace and sending you hugs.

With love, Becca xx

I have to hide my stuff so at the moment it lives in a box in the back of my car, that way I know that it goes where I go. I used to keep it in the loft but since we moved, my wife can get into the...

Jessica, I know what you mean. I have dressed for ages now but only recently has Rebecca had a name. It's nicer as I think it gives her some identity - I can think of her as someone rather than...