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if she was wearing pants, you say "Why are you wearing pants?!!"
if she was wearing a dress, you say, "Why are YOU wearing a dress?" (as if to say she can't pull it off as well as you do)

I've...

...i see more ruffled feathers on this forum than i do in real life restrooms...

Wow, a lot of interesting commentary here... now I guess I'm gonna chime in again.

I have believed for some time now that words are not reality. You can say "gay" or "straight" or anything else,...

hell-to-the-yeah.

go for it girl. there's nothing like a smiling "f*k you, i'm dressed like a girl... and have a nice day" to make you feel exhilarated.

when i've lived in apartments where i have to do laundry among other people, i just throw the girl stuff in with the guy. and i dress male.

panties abound... i handle them, toss them around,...

i hear contradicting advice about which restroom to go to.

when in a more public-type place i go to the girl's room. go to the stall, close the door. nobody knows anything. maybe i pass as a...

um, a friend of mine was being harassed by this uber-douchebag (i had seen him around before... he just doesn't let up) and i decided to step in.

i got the predictable remarks - being a girly-man...

well honestly i just assess how i feel about him. it goes one way or another from there.
...that make me "gay?" or him?
whatever.
get over it. it's not a big deal.


i consider myself lucky...

a RED Acura 3.2 TL.

It's not exactly brand-new, it's not a Mercedes (f&k me - i'm poor =( ) but it's clean, sharp, nice looking, and RED.

Yeah, it's the car I drive every day, even when wearing...

Crysten....

Your comments on Kate Beckinsale resounded with me. I found her supremely amazing even before I ever saw an interview of her behaving naturally as herself.

The way she speaks......

I complemented a co-worker on her hair changes one day. I always notice these things. I feel them, sometimes before they even happen.

Some time later the time and place was right for her to ask...

Personally, I will probably never try to make "the transition."

But for those that have, and began taking hormones, I am interested to know how they affected you. Did you notice changes in...

The thought just occurred to me... who has tried to get their driver license picture taken while they were dressed? Did anyone give them a fuss?

Now I really wonder...

um... either this person is as psychic as the only real psychic person i have ever known, or your mind has the powers to manifest your fears in the people around you.

I'll be honest. There are a number of people who post on this forum who I make no distinction whatsoever between what they are and what I perceive to be a female person. They look like girlfriends,...

only because you asked -


1985 - born, denver colorado

1990 - first time "stealing" pantyhose, legwear, dresses, etc. was in a situation where an older cousin of mine had her school twirling...

Haha... I can imagine the conversation went something like this:

"Baby, guess what? I'm a cross-dresser. Whew... glad I got that off my chest."

She: "That's it? Whew... when I found a pair...

I do think times have changed. I'm still young but thinking back to time and place I lived in as a kid... I knew better than to go out in public dressed in the wrong clothes. I would have gotten my...

Hmm, these are interesting thoughts.

I think that when I'm in a relationship with a girl, I do tend to dress less. I guess the explanation that you're getting enough feminine vibes around you...

It's because from the neck up I haven't taken a shot that I'm happy with yet. And I always feel like I still need to do a little more work and get one of those lucky angles.

I think I probably...

Hmm... I think I posted without giving much thought to earlier posts. It seems that this thread has degenerated into controversy over definitions of sexuality and gender orientation.

I think we...

Yes.

I'm very picky when it comes to men, however. I usually go for the 25-35 age range. Must be VERY well dressed without looking like he's trying. Intelligent. smells good. smells GOOD. ...

After years and years of contemplating question like these, what I have learned is this:

Human sexuality is way too complex to fit into categories. There really is no "straight" "gay" or "bi"
...

I'm speaking of the paranoia I use to have before I decided that anyone who is going to know me is going to know the real me.

I remember coming up with complex and intricate plans to ensure that...

don't sweat it.

she probably didn't know what she was doing.