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We should feel free to explore as many names as we need, and as many costumes, to find our authentic self.

I was doing Jungian Analysis, for several years, but it didn't really help me sort out my crossdressing / transgender issues. I got kind of fed up, although I still like a lot of Jungian writers. The...

I'd look for information at:
http://www.ifge.org/

and look at their links for resources in your area.

But that is me.

Love,
Dita Bach

Thanks for all the words of support.

XXXOOO,
Dita Bach:daydreaming:

Thanks for the responses, there is something that seems to get clarified by just 'trying on' a name. There are names similar to my male name but really I'd like something a little more 'goth'. As I...

I have been working a couple months on coming up with a 'femme' name and her-story. I think I finally have settled on 'Dita Bach'. It is quite clear and represents my spiritual heirs. I unfortunately...

You gals are hardcore! Ok. I shaved my legs today, hurrah!!!! I agree I was looking for excuses. I am actually hoping that my wife reacts and that we can move this thing forward. Weird huh?

I have...

Okay, to be more specific. I don't want to be the actress that plays Emma Peel. I want to be Emma Peel.

I want to be able to move in heels like Michelle did as Catwoman.

I want to have the...

Charlize is a pretty good pick, but I'd like to get a blend of the following:

Emma Peel
Angie Everheart
Corrinne Cleary
Sandahl Bergman (from 'All That Jazz')

A couple months ago I went out of town for some training and decided to get rid of the hair. It was great.

Now I am back "in my rut" and it is all growing back and I hate it. It is as bad as...

JoAnn,
I had a fairly unsatisfying call with MetroCD, but I keep reading your posts and hoping that it was a fluke. Maybe TriEss is better? I am in your area and I would like to find something like...

I am about half way through 'Alice in Genderland' and I don't think I could recommend it to my wife. But I do recommend 'Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay' as a book to help you examine other issues...

Beer hasn't really helped my crossdressing, it has increased my waist size. I used to smoke mj and probably would again, probably better for my waist. I am really boring these days, no drugs, maybe a...

Was Jean Genet a 'gay bad boy'? If so, there is a nice long book devoted to him by Sarte.

I've "purged" three times, crazy times. I regret it, but it did get some new stuff. I finally have a very nice garter belt rather than one of those cheap ones. So there is an upside.

Hi Lucy,
Great question! It got me to join up. I love the quality of introspection that I am seeing on this forum. Good stuff.

I still have mainly submissive fantasies, but I am trying to allow...