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Wishing you and your wife the best.

All I can say is, I am so glad you are not alone anymore! :D

I was thinking a bit more about this and I think "you" as a community are at, or close to the stage when you need to reclaim the words, labels and/or language that have been used to describe you.
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I think this a lovely thread to learn what it was like

but to also see that progress is being made...

The first time I came out was as a lesbian....it was stil a dirtyword and it was someone...

Just thought I would throw this idea out there….Since joining the board, which I admit has been relatively short. I have noticed something with the couples that are open about the cd’ing. There are...

I would agree that it is too much drama...I know that I would not react that way myself...but as I suggested we really do not know anything about Georgi's wife except for those couple things....based...

I just want to put in my two cents in for the wife. For good or for bad, she is entitled to her reaction...it was an instantaneous response to something that just sent her world off kilter.

We...

I got to say as someone who has anxiety issues I would have done it this exact same way.... the stress that you must have been feeling must have been intense, so there would have been a good chance...

What a lovely and humorous story...thanks for sharing ..:D

I am so pleased for you vivianann...now the energy you would have spent hiding and feeling bad can be used for the positive development of your relationship...It sounds like you two have such a good...

Maybe it was a good thing you did not meet if he has potential anger issues...very nice colors of skirt an top.

Sounds like great fun...and don't even like shopping...glad you had such a positive experience....sounds like a great friend.

OMG that was so funny...I love that sense of haha!

for being so brave and honest you deserve a humungous one of these
((((((((((((vivianann)))))))))))

So much great, caring advice...:)

Really in the end, we each want is the best match as a companion, lover, friend..Someone who we get and who gets us. To find this best match, at some point one...

What great friend, and it sounds like she is has your best intentions at heart. If that is the kind of friends you have, I think there is going to be more understanding and support coming your way.
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I got to tell you all that you have stimulated me...lol. mainly on an intellectual level though...;) I would most often rather study it than do it...Ever hear of someone with that kink....that's...

If that was the reason I was seeing the counselor this might be indicated, but it is just something she is aware of occurring my life.

As someone who has worked in the mental health field...each...

I just love all this wonderful feedback...I have personally explored and lived many different lifestyles...so there is no surprize that I am now emersed in something else.

Thanks for sharing your insights ....:)

Myy counselor admitted to not really understanding it...I am not sure if she has had any experience professionally or personally...I felt she was asking in...

I saw my counselor yesterday, and during the course of our session I mentioned the current status of things with regards to my hubby's cding, and my joining this forum. She seemed to feel that there...