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This is so sad. People should be allowed to be who they are. I applaud you for being you. :clap:

Jena

My prayers are with you. I don't know your full situation but know that as long as you accept yourself for who you are... that is what is most important. You will be alot happier as time...

This is NOT meant to offend anyone!


I do have to chuckle.. I am a gg. During the divorce I made sure to "dress to the nines" when I went to court .. then some said to me.. Do you think he looks...

Yes he did and I do not in anyway blame the crossdressing. He was into more then I ever knew. Some of which I wish he would have shared. Some of the things he was doing I have been able to try and...

Many things changed. I am not using cding as an excuse to leave. It was the over 20 yrs of lies and manipulation. I have been gone from him for a while. I just know that if he had told me it would...

For those of you who were "found out" by your W and you found yourself loosing them...

Do you think that if you had told them in the beginning it would have changed the outcome. As an ex, I do...

I'm a gg... estrogen.. unfortunatly, that is why I know have cancer...

There are so many postings here but there is one thing stands out to me on the board. As a GG I think one of the issues I see most are the "testing the boundries" between a GG and and SO. I put this...

There is a difference between Religion and Faith. Someone who "finds" religion does not understand faith. I know for me, my Pastor actually tried working with me to work on the marriage. The things...

Depending on the situation.. some of us can say Thank GOD!

I have my faith. To be judgemental is not religion or Faith. When I found out everything I had a nice talk with my Pastor. He did not condem my husband. He actually told me that sometimes this can...

So.. as a GG I wonder why you do this? I have very light hair on the backs of my hands.. trust me.. my hands have had more needles and tape removed and each time it's like a waxing..

I believe that the circumstances differ and should never be "the wife has issues" unless there is medical proof. I did flip back and forth but not due to "emotional issues". I believe it was due to...

I am actually typing this in another document so that I don’t hit post until I try and address everything I want to say. Chemo brain sometimes makes me post too early and I don’t get to say...

My first question that came up is who are you hiding it from?

There are some here that I have respect for:

Those that put the needs of their SO first and let them know who they are thereby giving them the choice to stay or not to stay.

There are those...

OK.. I'm a gg and confused because everyone has always told me its what liked, not what society tells them? I believe that it is who you are. I believe if it was unisex on clothes women would find...

I agree... I know when I was told I have stage 4 cancer, I never knew... only one in the family to ever have cancer

In response to stephene47 - I soooo disagree with you. I left due to the many issues. Not because of the CD alone. In fact, I have seen my stbex dressed. He does not know. When I saw him I was happy...

In our case he never told. I was the one to walk into it. Mine was a 20+ yr marriage and unfortunatly, with the quantity and the years of lies and other issues, I was done.

Typically when the marriage ends it has little to do with the cd'ing. Mine was many different issues with the final straw being the years of lies, deciet, manipulation and control. I also now...

This is why I included "unless someone is born with these... (I mistyped and put some) to include those that are born with both.

First, thank you. But, I think that many of the ideals that a woman or man has is NOT learned. I believe many of the mannerisms and traits are those that are part of who we are when we are created. I...

As a gg I just wanted to add my perspective. Other then those that they should have been born a women, I don't believe that a man could ever truly know what it is like to be a women. Our genetic...

WOW this really puts a WHOLE new spin on things.. just saying... wish i could send this to my stbex...