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    Transgender people have been in the news...

    Transgender people have been in the news worldwide for some years now and there are very few places in western countries where once can't be themselves and enjoy a normal life. People want you to...
  2. Thread: Hipper sensitive

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    I think most people who are antagonistic are...

    I think most people who are antagonistic are hiding their own TG feelings from themselves- so on the rare occasion if someone is malicious I am not bothered- I think to myself- 'hi, sister! I hope...
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    In my experience bisexuality is kind of...

    In my experience bisexuality is kind of fundamental to people but is usually thoroughly suppressed. CDing starts to break down the inner walls and we start thinking, hmm, what if..., and seeing with...
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    Hi Jean, It seems to me you are so...

    Hi Jean,
    It seems to me you are so straightforward that the newcomers felt they could trust you, and their innocence makes them good as friends as well. You'll be the mayor soon!
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    Sounds nice! Time spent in just sewing or...

    Sounds nice! Time spent in just sewing or organizing competes with going out for me- I get a different kind of experience of myself.
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    Share the arc of your crossdressing life

    I am 68, having crossdressed passionately since age 4. Only in the last few years since retirement have I been able to finally move out of the closet and examine my urge in the light of day, and I...
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    Once I let myself be the girl that I feel natural...

    Once I let myself be the girl that I feel natural being, and go out to be with people and interact in normal situations, shopping , art classes, etc- poof! no more dysphoria. Since my wife is...
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    HI Nancy, You have touched on an interesting...

    HI Nancy,
    You have touched on an interesting point- the relationship between gender role dysphoria and body feature dysphoria. My triggers were that I was jealous of all sorts of things women could...
  9. Thread: dressing blues

    by phili
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    When I don't feel like dressing/or do, but just...

    When I don't feel like dressing/or do, but just can't find the right outfit- or my fave just doesn't feel wonderful I am disappointed too. I want the 'there I am!' high, or the special 'at last...'...
  10. Thread: Being a MIAD

    by phili
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    Hi gang, I'm a mirl in a dress- which will for...

    Hi gang,
    I'm a mirl in a dress- which will for most people look like a MIAD. 'Mirl' to me is male girl- and that sums up my experience of my identity. I am male, but I feel like a girl. So I am a...
  11. Thread: not coming out

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    I design my own clothes now that I learned about...

    I design my own clothes now that I learned about pattern making and sewing techniques- and I am mulling over what a carpentry dress might look like- clingy is good. For outdoor gardening or tractorr...
  12. Thread: not coming out

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    I think it boils down to individual personality....

    I think it boils down to individual personality. What parts of ourself feel private and to be preserved that way- and what parts do we want to share with others. It is TMI for me to share my...
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    in deebra's defense- I don't think it useful to...

    in deebra's defense- I don't think it useful to speculate on people's motives here- it is guesswork and criticizing them is discouraging to sharing.

    The forum is very repetitive in terms of the...
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    Do you spend time in the company of women?

    I have enjoyed my sewing classes this spring- being with from 20-30 women of very diverse ages and cultures for 4-6 hours a day three days a week We were sitting and working together on projects,...
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    To add to that, I think the underlying...

    To add to that, I think the underlying sociobiology from millions of years of evolution is that males are bigger and stronger as a general rule, and tend to be sexually predatory/competitive-hence...
  16. Thread: Just go out

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    Thanks for the positive feedback-I think it is...

    Thanks for the positive feedback-I think it is funny that I didn't even think my dress was that short- just on the short end of normal.

    And that illustrates one of the inner measuring tapes...
  17. Thread: Current Thoughts

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    HI Jason, You said : "I'm having a hard time...

    HI Jason,
    You said : "I'm having a hard time dealing with how much she hates a valuable part of me. She insists she doesn't hate part me of just hates the clothes. I can't as easily split them...
  18. Thread: Current Thoughts

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    Hi Jason, I am so sorry to hear all this. My...

    Hi Jason,
    I am so sorry to hear all this. My wife finally did admit at the therapist that her FEAR was about 6 different versions of shame from others discovering my predilection, AND that it ruined...
  19. Thread: I wonder...

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    My view of this is that the things we seek look...

    My view of this is that the things we seek look different when we get them, and they evolve from there. And, even more important, the things we seek are not always the things we seek- they just are...
  20. Thread: Just go out

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    It is short, but not immodest- and doesn't blow...

    It is short, but not immodest- and doesn't blow up in the wind. I've looked around and occasionally females wear similar dresses. I like longer dresses as well- anything that has an artistic flair....
  21. Thread: I Walk Alone

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    Bravo Brianna! my first experience was similar-...

    Bravo Brianna! my first experience was similar- the world is fine with mixed gender cues, and I found that I felt freer- I didn't have to fit anyone's idea of how a male or female 'should' look or...
  22. Thread: Just go out

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    Just go out

    Last week I just felt I have gone over the waterfall- it is no longer an issue for me that I love wearing dresses and I am confident that it is not a meaningful issue to others who don't know me and...
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    I am a mirl- a male girl. I am male biologically,...

    I am a mirl- a male girl. I am male biologically, but feminine psychologically. I personally find that being male does not interfere with being feminine, sexually and otherwise. Of course, social...
  24. Hi again, Pandora. Your energy and sincerity and...

    Hi again, Pandora. Your energy and sincerity and willingness are evident. Your reasons to be hyper-vigilant are clear, and you have about a zillion huge stressors operating all at once.

    If I was...
  25. Wow- Dora, you have a wonderful capacity to be...

    Wow- Dora, you have a wonderful capacity to be articulate. None of what you have said seems strange- just normal couple being drastically out of sync in communications- i.e. one is asking one...
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