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  1. Thread: Double life

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    I'd generalize and say that many of us have...

    I'd generalize and say that many of us have multiple 'lives'- sequential and simultaneous. We have options, we wonder, we dream, we try things, we assert things, we give up things, we share one...
  2. Jodie, I don't consider anything to be...

    Jodie, I don't consider anything to be 'privileges' any more for the purposes of public discussion of gender behaviors! As I said, for me, every freedom is a privilege, under threat of revocation by...
  3. I thank everyone for the storms of protest. It...

    I thank everyone for the storms of protest. It helped me see how I developed my theory of assigned male and female powers and privileges, coupled with dreadful requirements and repressions, as a...
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    This is so fascinating! such a rich trove of...

    This is so fascinating! such a rich trove of reflective persooal imagery about mirrors and our interplay with them, and the 'lenses' through which our cameras see us!

    I love the mirrors I just...
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    I enjoy all these ways the mirror and photos help...

    I enjoy all these ways the mirror and photos help me see myself as others might see me.

    I remember, though, as a kid I did not use mirrors- I just looked down at myself from chest down and...
  6. The subject of 'privilege' obviously touches a...

    The subject of 'privilege' obviously touches a nerve for a lot of people, and understandably so. Can we all agree with this statement?

    "Many crossdressers speak of envying things that women do,...
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    So nice! Not only a sweet day out but with...

    So nice! Not only a sweet day out but with active support from your daughter!
  8. in reference to Miel's POV: As a GG she has the...

    in reference to Miel's POV:
    As a GG she has the privilege of her POV being considered more accurate than mine with respect to what a female feels! On the other hand, I'll bet, given the diversity of...
  9. To return to the subject of privilege- we speak...

    To return to the subject of privilege- we speak of male privilege, but are more inclined to speak of female lack of privilege/oppression, as this view of the social context is popular right now....
  10. This rousing discussion is really a nice study in...

    This rousing discussion is really a nice study in the diversity with which each of us experiences and feels the many layers of gender in society. I think I share most of Natasha's POV, and feel like...
  11. Hi Teresa, Yes to all of that. In our...

    Hi Teresa,
    Yes to all of that. In our generation females had to learn to adapt and make the most of their role as best they could, as we did. And for the lucky ones, at least the occasional...
  12. Thread: Intuition

    by phili
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    Hi Finna, I do feel that the liberation my...

    Hi Finna,
    I do feel that the liberation my emotions so I could feel them has greatly increased the nuance of my intuitions! I'd say I have more words and more detail now, and more ability to wonder...
  13. Thanks for the feedback so far! All good points....

    Thanks for the feedback so far! All good points.

    Teresa, I accept your kind caring and I can tell my philosophical treatises ring through for you as me struggling with my wife, and certainly that...
  14. Wanting only the best parts of female 'privilege'

    I have been working hard to just let myself be a woman [social definition- not biological] and follow my inner impulses. As many of you know, I gave up on trying to look female and just look as...
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    Hi Blackbird, You feel good about yourself, and...

    Hi Blackbird,
    You feel good about yourself, and have outlined all the social issues with clarity, so the remaining problem is just to find a nice variety of reliably safe places, meaning where...
  16. Thread: A conversation

    by phili
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    Steffi- Hopefully your wife can help them...

    Steffi- Hopefully your wife can help them understand there are a lot more options, and that every drawing, whether expected or not, is an occasion to ask friendly questions and listen, and support...
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    Good for you for going out and how nice the lady...

    Good for you for going out and how nice the lady behind you was happy to talk. You look wonderful and why wouldn't she. i find women often make friendly comments about my clothes as well- and it...
  18. Thread: Mystery gift

    by phili
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    That is quite an affirmation from the women's...

    That is quite an affirmation from the women's chorus- lucky you!
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    Best wishes! I also discovered I am essentially...

    Best wishes!
    I also discovered I am essentially a male girl- meaning in practice that I am male physically and like active and forceful physical and analytical work which is for me essentially...
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    Hi Zenlady, I'm another MIAD and advocate of not...

    Hi Zenlady,
    I'm another MIAD and advocate of not worrying about being male and wearing clothes normally 'reserved for' females. Many females are not all that keen on transformation dressing to try...
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    I have to take back my saying I am at peace- I...

    I have to take back my saying I am at peace- I have been tossing and turning all night and I want my words here to be truthful. The distinction is what a few others have said- which is that I am...
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    I have been analyzing the impulse and here are...

    I have been analyzing the impulse and here are what I think are all my reasons
    1. I feel a deep primordial feminine sexuality that was what caused me to recognize as a very young child that my...
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    I had a similar experience on the street a few...

    I had a similar experience on the street a few years ago- I was wearing a sun dress and had not checked or anticipated the wind's effect on it. I was having the most wonderful conversation with a...
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    Hi Jacques, I am a bit shocked, since I think I...

    Hi Jacques,
    I am a bit shocked, since I think I feel the same way you do- though I don't actually watch, But anticipating doing it, I feel a warning- that watching males compete really challenges...
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    I'll take this as a prompt to be even more at...

    I'll take this as a prompt to be even more at peace- how beautiful.Thanks!!
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