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Nikki, I feel your pain. I truly mean that. I am so sorry about the frustration that you are feeling. Alot of good advice in here. But here is an idea that I found to be a great help in dealing with...

I recently came out to a male friend of mine. I have known this person for about thirty years. Yes, he was surprised. I was really pleased with his reaction. He really did not know much about...

She recognized you from Facebook? Sounds to me like she was stalking you.:)

BTW, love your Vegas stories.

Glamour. I know its too "young" but I do not care. I feel too young. I love the Dos and Don'ts. Funny how I always find myself on the Don'ts side. Ha ha. I do not let that get me down. I'm just...

I agree. This is a problem. A woman out by herself late at night is not a normal occurrence. If I go to a club by myself or I meet a friend there, at the end of the night I am often on my own and...

Hi Suzanne. I know we have not spoken but I like your posts. I think you are a very sweet person. I know what and who I am. I am TS and it's very real and very serious. I have told my wife...

Wow! Great thread! This is right up my alley. Ha ha. So here goes. The first time I actually went through the whole process of head to toe dressing, wig, make up, etc. I absolutely knew that I had to...

Some of the clubs I go to have a policy of carding everyone at the door. I always show my legal driver's license. Its no big deal.

Unfortunately, I am an expert in purging. I used to do it all the time. It came from my lack of understanding of what I was doing and why I was doing it and of who I really am. I lived for a very...

I consider myself in the closet. I go out once or twice a week-to friendly establishments where I don't have to worry about disapproval. I go to meetings of a support group here in my town on...

OK, so it is constantly changing. #5 for the first 24 years of marriage. Then came the botched coming out and an extremely tense #4. Six months of that misery led to the re-reveal and my dear wife...

Ha ha. Hi Ceera! It was super fun running into you. I knew who you were right away and you looked great in that red dress. I'm sorry we didn't get to visit more but I was with a friend who wanted to...

Thanks Ceera. I love Bout Time 2. I usually go on Thursday nights. Next time I'm there on the weekend I will look for you. Ha ha.

Great story Ceera. I always enjoy stories about fun nights out in Austin. You are quite adventurous! I am a little jealous of your outgoing nature. It is also very nice of you to tip the performers....

Totally jealous of Adriana(but in a good way Adriana-you are awesome!). I am sadly closeted. Pretty much live day to day. Happily dress for a night out whenever I get the chance. Not nearly enough....

Hi Allison,

Thank you for such a personal and thoughtful post. So much of it is so very familiar to me. I have had the same feelings you have had. Your efforts to deal with those feelings are very...

So sorry about your experience Christina. I am glad that no one was openly hostile to you and no one was physically aggressive toward you. But I understand your discomfort and that you were hurt by...

Whoa, Confucious. Actual contact with a female? No, sorry. I am not my own girlfriend. That is not what that article said either. I am aware that there are some angry and judgmental people who make...

Gosh Kaley, I literally know just how you feel. I wish I had an answer for you. I would say that I think Katey's advice is really good. Not the easiest road but I don't see any other way. You know,...

I agree with most of the nice posts. I need to go out. Staying in-and alone-just isn't good enough.

Janet

Try kik. That is a messaging app you can use on your smartphone. It gives you a unique id you can use for messaging without giving out your phone number.:)

Hi. My money says it won't work. I know I totally don't know you but if you are on here and talking about a purge it just isn't going to be the answer my friend. I have purged so many times I can't...

Hmm. I don't really like that term but i guess I have to live with it since I probably have been living a textbook case. I'll try and keep this short. So, about two and a half years ago, after having...

I am not good at changing my voice but I do try to soften it a little. That is not very practical in a bar or club with loud music. When I have conversations with people I just speak in my normal...

I totally agree with your premise. The opposite is also sadly true. Lack of opportunity for dressing increases stress, etc.