As the others have said, unless you're willing to be open and honest about it, I would consider the alternatives. However each person needs to make their own decision.
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As the others have said, unless you're willing to be open and honest about it, I would consider the alternatives. However each person needs to make their own decision.
Mentally I might be closer to non binary rather than either or. I don't think I switch gears like I used to, more of a this is me and I dress as the situation dictates.
At work, I have to dress in...
Relatively quiet for me. Just me and my son. Went to his apt. Watched the ball game and then we went out for a bite, my daughter called later on (she's 2,000 miles away.
Been divorced and been widowed, so I can answer on both accounts. With the first wife, I had thought I was over all this and didn't really say anything until after we were married. I won't say that...
Even if they notice most people will not say anything, at least to you.
Actually the MIL killed the marriage not the crossdressing.
More than one in different colors, most were my wife's, one was a gift. Which one I use depends on where I'm going, what I'm wearing, and how much I need to carry. Some are formal clutches all the...
I'm sure that the age group is skewed towards older. Part of the reason is that it has taken time for many of us to accept this being a part of us. I do see more younger members joining and I think...
I guess the first question is why worry about what others think. Be yourself and enjoy it and don't worry about society
As long as I don't look ridiculous, I really don't care what others think male or female. Of course I'll take a compliment from either sex
If I'm going out it's all or nothing (an occasional nice top maybe in drab), I want to look as passable as I possibly can. However if I am home I may slip into something comfortable (skirt or dress,...
There are some but it is rare. Many more females may be friends but not want to be in a relationship
Being stuck inside does stink. We've all been there. As for me I finally said enough and I started to venture out. So far no repercussions and at this point in my life I just have to be me
Born Male but always felt a bit different. I do feel there is a woman inside fighting to get out. And over the years I've let this side become more overt and public. Would I transition? Probably not...
For some it would be a dream come true. I would, if I had the opportunity and could look fairly attractive. I don't think I dress provocatively but I do try to look nice when I do.
Not attracted to males in either mode. So I guess that makes me a hetero male lesbian?
Most of the people that know Nikki also have seen in drab. I am who I am and it all depends on what I decide to wear. Yes there are some friends that see me much more often as Nikki and vice a...
I try to have a Nikki day at least once a week. I do go out to church, maybe do some grocery or other shopping and visit with friends or going out to eat. Yes it does feel good and I do feel sorry...
As the weather heats up I do see more dresses and skirts. Thanks for the nice weather.
I'm laughing in that this has broken down to the level of wearing hose or not. I started this post just to give my thoughts of dresses or skirts vs pants. I wear pants in male mode so if I'm going...
1 Accepting that this a part of who I am
2 Going out as Nikki and interacting with the world around me
3 Getting ready and doing a good job on my make-up in a reasonable amount of time
4 Getting...
Does your wife know you dress and is she accepting? If she is and if there is a special piece to remember her by then I may ask. If not don't even go there
[QUOTE=Teresa;4353269]Nikki,
I never thought I would wear female jeans or trousers , well I had to bite the bullet because most GGs do , IT'S PRACTICAL !! I have to admit when I get back home I do...
I've got to agree that there is no reason to feel guilty about "not paying our dues". Each sex has it's own pressures and expectations that can not be borne by the other. As for myself, I dress to...
When you're young you are influenced by your parents. Unlike Majella's mom, my mother was quite a good looking woman. She got divorced when I was very young and I was raised by her and my...