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I have had positive experiences, and (as others have above) encourage you to find someone who has training and experience with TGs. I agree: you don't need to be "cured." In fact, I think it's pretty...

My mother stumbled across some video "evidence" I had (stupidly) left behind after moving out. She confronted me with it--delicately, and ostensibly out of a sense of concern--but then closed the...

When you're 21, to wake up the next day and be 50 would be shocking. But if you make your way to 50 day by day the usual way, you don't even notice it happening. Some things are lost, but others are...

Because Victoria isn't the only one with a secret.

I'd take either pill that pulls me out of being trapped between two worlds. If the pink pill leaves me as I am, I guess that's the same as taking no pill at all, so I'd be taking the blue pill.
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I suppose even average to less-than-average looking women who look at a gorgeous woman must--on some level--think "I'd love to be her." In answer to your question, Reine, if I could swap out all my Y...

While I have to give the nod to WildAboutHeels point that it's difficult to claim 100% certainty just by looking, I also agree with Reine's point that some people are more intuitive. I would be the...

I *totally* get that struggle: be with her vs be her. That happens to me all the time when I see a woman who fascinates me on some level. Just from the answers you already have here, it's clear to me...

Hey Sisters, I have a question I'm grappling with, and I could use input from any of you that have the patience for this long post (for which I apologize in advance). I'm in a terrible tailspin about...

For what it's worth, I have personally viewed the point of this forum to be the membership. I saw signing up as applying for citizenship in a place I wanted to be. Signing up here was like declaring...

That makes perfect sense to me, Kelly (and those who have expressed similar thoughts). I too am inclined to resist statements that imply a one-size-fits-all formula can be applied to a given group,...

Thanks for the reply, Wildaboutheels. I *do* read the responses here, but didn't feel the answer was quite as obvious as you believe; maybe I overlooked something. Plus I always like to see questions...

I recently read something that suggested that most CDs start out dressing more along the lines of bimbo/tramp but gradually move toward dressing as a woman of their age group typically would. The...

When I'm me--which I think of ask being en femme--I am always, always alone. I have a brother and a sister who know, and I talk with them about how this demon taunts me, and I'm working with a...

What an interesting idea! "Foreigners in Lady Land." I think, for myself, that in many ways I've largely been a foreigner in Gentleman Land for most of my life. There are numerous ways I have always...

Every time. I think few things are more transformational.

No sarcasm intended: best of luck to you. I hope you can leave it all behind. If you actually figure out how to do it, please come back and leave a message for those of us who would love to follow...

I love it now, but lemme tell ya: the first time I saw it, it really messed me up. I was about 19, I was living at my parents', and was still in the early phases: stealing/borrowing things from my...

Of course! ...and I certainly hope nothing in my reply implied I'd have it any other way. :o

Your post prompted me to do some dissecting of my own. I agree with Veronica: it's a bit of a...

I totally relate to this, Brittany! I've turned the same corner recently, and have started trying shoes on in the store. Standing or even walking around in the store, it's almost comic to try to...

I really like this; I'd say "It says it all," but I have more I'd like to add... :battingeyelashes:

I think the matter lies not in what "trans" means, but in what "gender" means. I subscribe to...

You go, squirrelfriend!

What are we talking about here: social classification? politics? marketing? Because I think whether being under the same umbrella is "good" or "bad" depends on the answer to that.

I see CDing as...

I think this is true. But I don't think it's an "all or nothing" proposition. For example, there is a level of alcoholism in which the addict is functional but is in the grip of addiction; they...

I think this absolutely has to be true; it's not a certainty that the high results in addiction/compulsion, but "more likely"? Absolutely, I think. Just basic Pavlovian psychology supports that a...