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  1. That's pretty much the way I feel. I'm not...

    That's pretty much the way I feel. I'm not bigendered. I don't have discrete male and female identities. I'm just me. But perhaps unlike you I don't want to identify with either being male or...
  2. My impression is that most cross dressers are...

    My impression is that most cross dressers are bigendered. They have a male and a female identity and they like to present their female identity as almost a different person to their male identity. ...
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    Maybe by now, having spent 56 years doing what...

    Maybe by now, having spent 56 years doing what you want despite what other people think you could just decide that it doesn't really matter whether they accept you for who and what you are. You have...
  4. Thread: Is this true?

    by devida
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    Fabulous! I do believe that much of the...

    Fabulous! I do believe that much of the hostility towards cross dressing people report (I don't experience this personally) may come from a suspicion that cross dressers are trying to disguise their...
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    There really is an awful muddle over sex,...

    There really is an awful muddle over sex, sexuality and gender. I know one non binary defined male at birth who says that they are lesbian. I really do think that if we just allowed everyone to own...
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    I don't know I have ever seen anyone who was...

    I don't know I have ever seen anyone who was rejected by this community. Maybe I haven't been here long enough. I suppose there are group norms but they are pretty inclusive. I am non binary,...
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    I am more comfortable with myself today than I...

    I am more comfortable with myself today than I have ever been. I am not sure how much this is due to accepting being transgender, my sheer delight in wering clothes that I like, as opposed to...
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    I told my wife because I had been reading this...

    I told my wife because I had been reading this discussion board. She knew I was wearing clothes usually worn by women because she either gave them to me or helped me buy them since her sense of...
  9. Thread: illusion

    by devida
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    I categorically reject the idea that people who...

    I categorically reject the idea that people who do not identify as binary have a core identity that is either male or female. Gender, and to an amazing extent, sex, is a contniuum, a spectrum with...
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    I do believe, based on my own life, that the...

    I do believe, based on my own life, that the universe is a friendly place and will tend to produce exactly what you need if you can be clear about it. I suggest that you carefully list the...
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    I don't wear skinny jeans. At this time of year...

    I don't wear skinny jeans. At this time of year when it actually gets below 60 in Florida I wear tights. If it gets really cold I wear cropped and tight pants over the tights. I carry a purse...
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    Probably the majority of transgender men and...

    Probably the majority of transgender men and women would disagree with that statement. Most scientists involved with sex research would disagree that what is between your legs defines your gender. ...
  13. Thread: Soul Mates

    by devida
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    I've never understood what a soul is but I'm...

    I've never understood what a soul is but I'm guessing you mean someone who completes you, who is your best friend, lover, life partner, who you cherish and who cherishes you and who is your long term...
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    I was wondering why I started getting transgender...

    I was wondering why I started getting transgender group suggestions last time I logged into Facebook. I found it very useful. It looks like fb is one of the go to places for trans people. I'll...
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    I do use terms like sweetie, darling, sweetheart...

    I do use terms like sweetie, darling, sweetheart and love in conversation but I use them indiscriminately for men, children, pets, raccoons and anything else that is sentient that I am fond of. I...
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    I live in Florida. I don't need a robe. It's 85...

    I live in Florida. I don't need a robe. It's 85 degrees today. I have panties on under my short nightie, so what's to see?

    What are my neighbors going to say:

    You know that guy who wears a...
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    I'm going to take issue with the basic idea that...

    I'm going to take issue with the basic idea that there is some kind of inevitable progression from never wearing women's clothes or questioning one's gender identity assigned at birth at the...
  18. I am a professional jeweler. I design and make...

    I am a professional jeweler. I design and make everything we sell so I am not the type of jeweler you encounter in a jewelry store. Craftspeople like me are known as artist jewelers or metalsmiths....
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    Men cry in a number of different cultures, though...

    Men cry in a number of different cultures, though not so much in those that make a fetish of repressing one's feelings. I've always cried if I was sad. Loss makes me cry. I certainly was...
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    I am actually not at all sure if I could tell if...

    I am actually not at all sure if I could tell if a man over 50 who chooses to dress as a woman and is a little bit careful about presentation was a man. I understand that if you are young, built or...
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    I would say it is androgynous if the person is...

    I would say it is androgynous if the person is deliberately trying to mix genders in clothing or is deliberately presenting as non binary, third gender, a gender or whatever you want to call someone...
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    I do consider myself transgender but that does...

    I do consider myself transgender but that does not, to me, mean that I am in the process of transitioning from male to female. It's just an acceptance of the discomfort I always felt identifying as...
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    My wife, when I told her I was transgender, said...

    My wife, when I told her I was transgender, said that not only was she happy for me that I had discovered this but that she thought it exciting that I was embarking on a journey of self exploration....
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    Wasn't it just trash talk, Miss tee? Sure it...

    Wasn't it just trash talk, Miss tee? Sure it highlights that Transgendered people are the current subjects of gossip and discrimination but go back 5 years and the person would have been gay, go...
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    Most of my friends are women or gay men. ...

    Most of my friends are women or gay men. Heterosexual males are the minority.
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