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OK perhaps some clarification is in order...

When presenting as a man, is the OP attracted to other men, men presenting as female (CD's), and/or women?

When presenting as female, does the OP's...

If you are turned on by a CD, and part of that attraction is knowing that they ARE a CD (i.e. a male person with male parts underneath)... you're at least bi-curious or probably bi. Which is fine.
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*grins and bites tongue*

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Me neither. Is pinto saying it would be paradise having to become a woman for the pleasure of other men? Or that having a man turn into a woman for him would be the thrill?

The problem is with the cultural expectation of what "gay guy" means. Also, an astonishing number of "hetero" CD's seem to want to get into my pants. I wonder what that could imply? It may not be "by...

You got that right. The actual experience of being a lesbian is not the same as being a hetero guy visualizing how cool it might be to be a lesbian. :heehee:

Ever go to a lesbian bar? Ever notice...

At least half of the psychologists I've met were loony. She could be one of them.

Whether women win or not, guys who prefer to be guys are going to stay that way.

Fem-mode opens new doors... but can also shut existing ones. Liberal-ish minded genetic women are quick to open up, but (in general) drag queens, gay men, and conservative girly-girls are only too...

Drag queens work for tips. Hard work and very little money. The biggest reward is the opportunity to be the center of attention under the limelight while strutting your stuff.

Counseling requires...

Hoo boy.

On the upside, it's a good thing that she goes to mass 3-4 times a week so that you can get your girl time in. Otherwise, it's pretty clear this situation is parked. Permanently.

Well... gender is a pretty huge part of "person". How they look, act, dress, speak, socialize with... all of it gets factored in. If what is between their legs is obviously visible, well, that's part...

Don't wear a miniskirt with garters, a French maid outfit, or ballerina dress to the grocery store unless it is actually Halloween.

I think you nailed it right there: Your male life is too restrictive.

Look for constructive ways to change it. Not by wearing pink nail polish or wearing bras, but in the actual living of your...

In my experience as a CD (well, as an emerging pre-op MTF back then), lesbian clubs are generally terrible for meeting single females. Same for Craigslist, just avoid it.

Women who are into CD's...

At the very least it makes you bi-curious, especially if part of the attraction is knowing that the CD is male underneath. Have you ever created a "desire map" for yourself? Like a list of all the...

When the pink fog is taking over, it is a sign that you have been out of balance for too long. The only remedy is to ride it out... loud, pink, and proud. Hopefully it will subside in a few days.
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