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    And in answer to the OP, to those I am out to, my...

    And in answer to the OP, to those I am out to, my preferred pronouns are she/her, and for the rest I will suffer a bit longer. Oddly, I get "m'am'd" occasionally even when in boy mode these days, so...
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    The question makes no sense. Male traits are, by...

    The question makes no sense. Male traits are, by definition, masculine. If your walk, for example, is feminine then it's feminine. What's left of my beard is not feminine. I could go on, but you seem...
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    When I started therapy, it was for similar...

    When I started therapy, it was for similar generic complaints - depression, anxiety, etc. I have mild PTSD (lots of stuff from a 23-year EMS career that one can't un-see), but I was also ready to...
  4. First of all, am not a CDer, and so, don't have a...

    First of all, am not a CDer, and so, don't have a dog in this fight.

    You are correct, of course. Anyone can and should wear whatever they want. The problem is that blending is exactly what a lot...
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    Go for it. The environment will be (at the least)...

    Go for it. The environment will be (at the least) tolerant and respectful. In all likelihood, they guys will ignore you. You're not their type. Most of women will ignore you for the same reason. That...
  6. If you can get by without transition, count your...

    If you can get by without transition, count your blessings. I understand that it's a tradeoff that leaves you less than happy, but I suspect that you've evaluated what transition would cost you and...
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    Sigh... Bodies that have been on HRT for any...

    Sigh...
    Bodies that have been on HRT for any length of time, and most definitely bodies that have never gone through male puberty, are not "male bodies". I have several FtM acquaintances, and I can...
  8. Not really. The answer is pretty obvious. :)

    Not really. The answer is pretty obvious. :)
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    Don't be too hard on yourself, and by that I mean...

    Don't be too hard on yourself, and by that I mean at all. Once male puberty has changed our voice, it is extremely difficult to change it back. Even with surgery to permanently alter the pitch range...
  10. Sticky: If "the public" were the problem, I'd agree, but...

    If "the public" were the problem, I'd agree, but that's not where the challenge lies. The public, by and large, does not see us as a problem. Those that do are, by and large, responding to the fear...
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    "Passing" is a myth. Most who were AMAB can't....

    "Passing" is a myth. Most who were AMAB can't. If, however, your presentation shows that your feminine appearance matters to you, most people, by far, will respect that. I am not saying that people...
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    Let me be crystal clear about this, right up...

    Let me be crystal clear about this, right up front... You have every right to be who you are, even if that means you want to be a bearded lady. Just be clear that presenting in public that way is, to...
  13. Thread: Therapy...

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    1. Yes, I am much more comfortable with a woman...

    1. Yes, I am much more comfortable with a woman therapist. The skill and knowledge that make for a good therapist are not gender-specific, but it is easier to relate to women in that scenario.
    2. I...
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    I worked in EMS for 23 years. If it's not...

    I worked in EMS for 23 years. If it's not medically pertinent, you won't here it commented on. First of all, it would be unprofessional in the extreme, but more directly, it does not play into...
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    And a woman with poor self-esteem, perhaps. That...

    And a woman with poor self-esteem, perhaps. That kind of behavior sells the heck out of romance novels but its unacceptable in the real world.
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    Hi, Charlotte. Your first sentence describes...

    Hi, Charlotte.
    Your first sentence describes gender dysphoria in the first five words, "I hate my male form..."

    The rest of that sentence, "...I will never pass as a female," is true for most of...
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    I think you mean... "I want to pretend to be...

    I think you mean... "I want to pretend to be someone I am not."
    Look, if you define gender non-conformity as "abnormal", then it is likely that you will never be normal. If you acknowledge that...
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    Throwing clothes away does not change who you...

    Throwing clothes away does not change who you are, and does negate your deception.
    How did I do one of the scariest things I've ever done? By accepting who I am and wanting to never again enter a...
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    Bigotry is "deplorable". Period. Defending it as...

    Bigotry is "deplorable". Period. Defending it as an "opinion" does not make it otherwise.
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    Shirley Muldowney. :)

    Shirley Muldowney. :)
  21. Thread: Pride Month

    by Aunt Kelly
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    "...go out and be seen?" The short answer is...

    "...go out and be seen?" The short answer is "yes".
    The longer answer is yes, because every time we interact with those who are not familiar with transgender issues (using the "umbrella" definition...
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    Congratulations. You have proven that acting like...

    Congratulations. You have proven that acting like a normal person, regardless of your presentation, will give the police no reason to mess with you. They are trained to behave just as you've...
  23. Thread: Fetish

    by Aunt Kelly
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    I do not agree. Yes, more often than not, in the...

    I do not agree. Yes, more often than not, in the context of discussion on this forum, the sexual component is present, but conventional definition is a bit more inclusive......
  24. Sticky: That is exactly what it is; yet another ploy to...

    That is exactly what it is; yet another ploy to garner political support be demonizing "the other". In this case, it's especially despicable because they're pitching it as a "think of the children"...
  25. Thread: Fetish

    by Aunt Kelly
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    Yes, you are a fetishist. No, I don't consider...

    Yes, you are a fetishist.
    No, I don't consider myself to be an authority, beyond that of one who admits to being rather pedantic, but then I'm not arguing the definition. As you use it, it's...
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