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Liz,

I think the terms transvestite and crossdresser are essentially interchangeable. However, they do have subtle differences in interpretation. "Transvestite" is an older term that usually...

I definitely agree that some people crossdress without coming near to, much less crossing, the transgender line. I've met a few. They are firmly in the male mindset, thinking like males and acting...

There is so much going on in this thread! Firstly, trappedNhere, your situation sounds very complicated. It's great that you were open about your orientation early on. In my opinion, the kind of...

There are several deep issues here. First off, we have to accept that most GGs simply don't get crossdressing. It crosses wires in their brains and messes with their self-image and their life-long,...

The next step for me is living full-time in a second-home environment. Laser facial hair removal and ear piercings will ensue. I will remain andro at work and to my son, but my wife has fully...

I'm using an audio feminization self-hypnosis system that I like a lot. It is a series of audio recordings that are essentially relaxation and guided meditations intended to re-program your...

When I was a young teenager, my older sister had a friend named Punkie Fox. No kidding. She was beautiful, petite, with a great body, golden tan and a perky personality. I was totally smitten with...

Sally,

I just read this thread and I sympathize with your dilemma. How did Halloween go? Have you found a way to further the discussion with your wife? I am fortunate to have a very supportive...

Paige, I think you have hit on something important. I am fortunate to be married to a mostly-lesbian woman who has and active sexual relationship with a woman. Since I have been dressing she has been...

Actually, I didn't explain this part very well. Our house is very private. It is an older pueblo-style home in Santa Fe with a perimeter adobe wall which totally hides the front yard and the approach...

Has this ever happened to you?

It was mid-morning. My wife and I were in the living room. I was wearing a nice, floral-patterned dress, sitting on the sofa and working on my laptop. My wife was...

Thanks for the responses, girls. This seems to be something we have in common. After going out I feel much more sensitive and in touch with my feelings. I even notice that the tone of my voice is...

I have recently had several opportunities to go out dressed while traveling in my work. I've connected with TG/CD groups in the cities I've visited and gone out dancing. I've met and mingled with...

I chose my name because it is a lovely word that has a deeper meaning. I came upon it from the study of alternative sexuality. In researching ejaculatory control for spiritual purposes, I came across...

Paula, I think this may be true. It certainly has been a fctor in my wife's understanding of my CDing. The more she has been drawn to women, the more she accepts me as her surrogate girlfriend. Now...

This is a very interesting thread. One thing that hasn't been discussed is a GG's perception of masculinity in her male partner and how his CDing might threaten her perception of him as a man.

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I think most of us go through stages in our comfort level with shopping. At first I was very nervous and pretended I was buying for my wife. When I realized how obvious I was holding garments up to...

Hi Gurls,

I'll be in San Diego tomorrow, 8/2. Does anyone know of a CD/TV-friendly club there? I'll be staying downtown. Thanks!

Kehleyr, thanks for the very insightful post. I agree with your assessment of orientation. I would just like to add that I know bi-identified women in long-term relationships with CD men who...

It started for me in early childhood. I don't remember this incident, but it is a family legend. When I was about three years old, my two older sisters got life-sized dolls for Christmas. They were...

Excellent post, battybattybats (great name). Everyone should be free to express themselves as they wish. Most of us just want to express our feminine sides, but it is assumed that by dressing like...

I have dressed and played with Dommes many times. I have been fortunate to have kinky partners and not have to go to pros, but I know one who I would gladly pay. In my experience, forced feminization...

I see your point, Chantal .... sorry.

I dress at home when my son isn't around. At 14, I think his psyche is a little too fragile for dad in drag. Since I travel in my work, I dress a lot in hotel rooms, and occasionally go out to a CD...

There are no social groups in my area, but I travel in my work. I'd go out of my way to attend a social gathering focused on fun and entertainment, rather than a support and discussion group. I'd...