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Way back in the early 80s, I so, so wanted to get my hair permed. One day I was walking past a salon when I saw this young fellow with his hair in perm rods. I guess I was staring at him pretty...

My wife borrows my earrings all the time. I have more pairs than she does and she's always losing hers. Last time she lost one of her gold sleepers, she just decided to appropriate mine. I had to buy...

I agree Hidden, I dress for myself having started when I was about eight or nine. I have zero interest in attracting men and would be horrified if I did (unlikely). I was married for forty years. My...

Strangely, I was prepared for my Dad to see that I had pierced my ears but couldn't face my Mum. I waited until she had passed away before taking this much, longed-for step. Back in the wild 80s I...

"Queen of New Orleans" - Jon Bon Jovi
Also love "I'm just a girl" and "Laid"

It's the definition of crossdressing that's at issue here as some of you have alluded to. As I understand it, male sexuality has a strong element of the fetishistic as "normal" and I'm reasonably...

Normal? Not by any statistical test that I'm aware of.
Desirable? Definitely!

Like many (most) who have posted here, I went through a period of deep guilt when I was adolescent. I didn't understand the compulsions that tormented me, thinking that I must be sick. Back then,...

Most of my close friends are male but I usually get on really well with my friend's wives. I never try to talk girly to them but we just seem to have a rapport in movies and books we like etc. The...

I love those outfits from "Gone with the wind". Can't stand the movie, worship the clothes and the hair-styles!

I agree with two of Briana's points. I'm new here but I have already been impressed by the generally high level of literacy compared to most of the other fora that I have sampled (on a whole range of...

I hear myself saying the same intolerant rubbish to my mates and I hate myself even as the words are coming out. Peer pressure and the urge to deflect negative attention are the most powerful forces...

'bout nine or ten, I started experimenting. I was very fond of my sister's two-piece swim suit.

One of the things that I love about being a crossdresser is that I think that I can appreciate the whole woman. I check out her hair, her dress, her jewellry etc. Then I check out her legs and her...

Since I muddled through adolescence, I have always been comfortable with my masculinity (I've never been, or ever tried to be, the chest-beating macho type - what have they got to hide, anyway?). My...

It was earrings for me. I desperately wanted pierced ears from the age of about twelve when not many girls in my town had them done (yes, a long time ago!).

Industrial chemist - but I definitely have a "wordy" brain rather than the stereotypical male spatial skills. Hopeless at anything in visual arts.

Hi Michelle,
I did two things to deal with my "tendencies". One; I developed an iron will to keep all the different threads of my life separated. I've kept this going, pretty successfully I think, ...