As a mediator I learned that you cannot get to a meaningful compromise if one side will not give something up, in this case her absolute rejection of your CD'g. From what I've read there seems to be...
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As a mediator I learned that you cannot get to a meaningful compromise if one side will not give something up, in this case her absolute rejection of your CD'g. From what I've read there seems to be...
I'm sure Kelly was just pulling your leg in a friendly way.:)
I'm gonna' assume you're looking for a long term relationship. I think that the kind of relationship you're looking for can happen,...
It was 40 years ago that I had the privilege of watching Bob Hoover, starting at about the altitude of that bus, kill the engines on his Shrike, do three loops, one barrel roll, over the runway, and...
Two older brothers flew, one still flies left seat in a 777. Family ran out of money then. Does flying R/C count? Even had a couple of designs published. Nothing like flying a sailplane off a slope...
I've found knee socks were great to wear and I know they're there. Then I discovered riding boots! They hug my legs and feel great, and nobody has noticed (that I know of). Short boots too (I can't...
I started the same sort of way, except my wife took all my underwear to the laundry, and left a pair of her panties on the pillow. That was three years ago. Anyway, try not to look better than her....
This is only my opinion, but reflects a lifetime of fighting depression and anxiety (and 21 years with a crazy woman!). 4-6 beers sounds like self medication. Your wife has her own problems and she...
My wife kinda' started me on CD'g 3 years ago when she took all my underwear to the laundry and left just one pair of her panties on the pillow as a joke. So I put them on, which she did not expect...
Tracii G is right in both her posts on the danger of what you are doing. And I think it is more dangerous than that. There is a term for being careful and that is situational awareness, and in your...
It's not 22. Trust me.
Get into therapy for yourself. Marriage counseling is like mediation; you'll never get a resolution to your problems if one party doesn't want one. I don't even want to talk about a seven year...
Jean,
How good are you at lying perfectly still, not blinking, and breathing shallowly? Ooohhh, that evil passive-aggressive side of me....
Alice,
You are as beautiful as the person you see in the mirror!
Jane
I've read, with great sadness, of the many among us, who've had to live their lives in DADT marriages or live totally secretive lives. With a totally supportive wife, I can only try to imagine the...
That's a bit of a stretch. Bipolar is a very serious condition. I'd guess Lana had something of an epiphany in her thinking, the kind of thing I had maybe 8 weeks ago when I decided to go out dressed...
Tracy
I think that as attitudes have changed over the past forty years, the reasons for keeping CD'g a secret have lessened somewhat (though they are still there). This may help you explain to your...
Tracy,
The following is gonna' be a stream of consciousness kind of thing so please bear with me!
Keep in mind that she is frightened, not just angry. Does she know this has been going on for...
AllieSF
I was speaking in the context of a retail transaction the OP was making. Government and things like utilities do not take cash (usually) but they are getting payments on established...
Cash is still legal tender, and has an ID pic on each and every one!
This x infinity (and beyond.)
A guy who thinks he's on a date with a gal who then finds out you ain't can become VERY HOSTILE and dangerous. The male ego can be very fragile.
Hi Tamsin,
Please don't take this as criticism as it's not intended as such. If you've been speaking to your wife as you've written your post, there is room for confusion. I've read the post several...
I've taken to keeping the phone in my pocket, and I can't tell you how many times the camera has been on when I take it from my pocket. Sometimes I hear the speed-drive camera sound of it taking a...
Maria,
I don't think you're too paranoid, but then again I always put tape over the lens on each new laptop! And no, I'm not kidding.
Dru, for Drusilla, is a character in the web comic "Pibgorn", by Brooke McEldowney. A succubus, btw, and a very sexy character.
EDIT! Apologies as I had not seen today's episode of Pibgorn....
We read about all the people who have tried to give up CD'g and failed. Do we really expect to hear the stories of those that have succeeded....on this forum? Just a question to ponder. BTW, I'm here...