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Just to tease this apart a little further - CassandraSmith was quoted as saying "...it would be more socially acceptible to be a gay CDer. However, it would actually be more difficult sexually...

I spoke up when I was young and was pooh-poohed by obviously-discomfited adults all the way into denial and repression. Speaking up doesn't always work. :cry:

When I'm being brutally honest with myself? I want to be one. The clothes are just the stuff on the outside, and there are lots of women who don't wear super-girly-frilly feminine stuff (butch...