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I have seen many women dressed provacatively, and none of them have ever been groped by another woman. Never!!!! This was a drunk woman groping what she thought was a "tranny". So, let's not get...

I am just over 6', though not all that heavy anymore. Still, I tower over most everyone (especially in heels, lol). Other than slouching there is no way around the height issue. Standing tall and...

A) ....when you look in the mirror at your fem self, do you look, to your eyes younger ?
Definitely.

B) .....does your SO think you look younger when dressed and made up. ?
She has never seen...

I can certainly understand why you feel the way you do about your ex. My viewpoint in re. to my wife, is that I would be happy if she did research and learn more about cding. I don't hate the fact...

My wife is concerned for my safety too (and hers). I am a very cautious person anyway, and have always agreed to be as safe as possible, and to try not to embarrass her. So far I have succeeded,...

I think it is counter productive for us to continue in this vein. I am in the position of having to justify myself, and thus look defensive. Some of what you say is somewhat true, sure. But the...

Me too, like i'm in a ferarri!!!!! Zoom, zoom, zoom.:D:D:D:D

I think if you re-read my posts, you will find that I said I BELIEVE or THINK I want to do those things, not that I am going to do it. I am unsure, still. Let's face it, they are common thoughts,...

I suppose it's possible. But in this case, and the few others I experienced, all I can say is, "they weren't acting shy at all...". They weren't just sitting there just looking around,acting...

My last comment was only meant to curtail the us vs them feeling. We don't need that.

My thread really wasn't meant to be disparaging to TS, at all. It was meant to include the whole TG...

THINGS sometimes just happen. But THINKING a certain way doesn't. Thought processes are built up by a combination of intelligence (or lack of), experience, learned behavior, etc. If one came out...

Personally, I don't think that TS have anything worse going on than CDers. Probably nothing to do with that. We all have our insecurities. Secure TS vs. secure CDers----that would be nice!!!

No, her position hasn't changed. So what? If her motivation is all wrong that just makes it worse. Again motivations matter, for me as well. If I am "pushing the envelope" is it because I just...

There are always compromises. Time compromises, family compromises, etc. I am not speaking of those. In addition many of you know what you are, where you want to be, etc. I do not. I don't know...

First of all, I appreciate the comments. Thanks for relating your experiences. I have read of many cders with similar stories.

We (my wife and I) have spoken as often, as we can. Also, I am...

I have been looking at some other threads, and thinking about my and others' situations.

When you and your wife/so discuss boundaries, does it matter what her motivation is? For example, does...

It may indeed escalate the argument, that's for sure. However, an instant, instinctive retort has nothing to do with being clever or not. His response was a spur of the moment emotional outburst,...

I think there is a lot of truth in what you said. I am not nervous at all (now anyway), but sometimes I know I look aloof, when I am just busy looking around. So, of course, they may have misread...

I was in Charlie's bar on Lavacca. I was there to play in a pool tournament, but alas, got there too late. I wasn't and usually don't go to look for "sisters" but just to enjoy myself. I love...

One is allowed to stand up for themselves. Your outburst was very understandable. When someone attacks you, you are entitled to protect yourself.

Now you have to address whatever is going on in...

Lorileah, on another thread made the statement,

"On that note, I have not been to the local T-bars for awhile. One reason was that I felt like I was in enemy territory. I try to look good when I...

I think it's crazy to tell someone that you are just casually dating, unless you are already "out". If you don't want your secret to be common knowledge, you need to be sure that she is trustworthy....

I suppose some are competing, but it appears most are simply trying to get opinions, celebrate their femininity, etc. It would be natural to assume that some of the male traits (competiveness...

Just a quickie, as I am going out in a sec---lol!!!

Congrats. You have already been given good advice. Not much more to add. I hope things work out-----give it some time and be patient, if it...