Congratulations Bobbi. That is wonderful what you have done. It will help a lot of people who have little experience seeing and interfacing with us. Thank you!
I have done 5 interviews with a...
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Congratulations Bobbi. That is wonderful what you have done. It will help a lot of people who have little experience seeing and interfacing with us. Thank you!
I have done 5 interviews with a...
Hello Camilla,
I had prostate cance4r diagnosed in 2005 and had the prostate removed by the Da Vinci robotic ("nerve sparing") technique in August that year. I had both unwanted side effects,...
Kelly, You did not clearly state what transitioned means for you. Or, did I misread something?
To the OP,
I try not to argue semantics because what something means to one may vary for others....
This is my go to costume, Medieval Maiden, which works for me!
There are justifiable and good fears to have like keeping a job, neighbors and friends, as well as one's SO. Those are good fears and care must be taken until that time, if it ever comes, when you...
Great for you! I love doing the same and getting to know the service people and the owner plus regulars opens up a whole new world! Thanks for sharing.
This. At 74, I wear my strappy short sundresses with with sandals or flip flops. I don't really wear heels anymore and my only make up for the few years is lipstick!
Allie
PS: I do not act...
Beautiful posts Devi. I have felt your struggles, frustrations and happiness. May you have many more happy days.
One question: How has your family and friends in Chile responded? I ask because...
Wear it when you are ready! You will love it once you start so be ready.
I started going out from the very beginning after dressing up completely for the first time as a crossdresser and that was in 2007. I loved my first time out and every other time after that. I did...
Before I ever identified as transsexual I saw a morning coffee friend at the Orpheum Theater in San Francisco. I saw her with a man and a young girl. I decided to go up and say hello and be direct...
Fortunately for me, I only had one of those moments and that was after I came out to everyone that I was Trans but had not gone full time yet. My regrets at that time were not so much about being...
Since I am a woman, a transwoman, I dress how I want when I want. When I first went full time I went the casual route with several different types of women's Bermuda shorts and a large variety of...
Yes, go out, and Yes to what everyone has said above. Look for local Rainbow organizations to join and participate, even if only for Pride Month.
I joined the SF Pride organization where my best...
Robyn,
As you say, we are here and alive and can enjoy life in a sometimes complicated way. I wish you the best and thanks for sharing such a personal hurdle for you. Having a positive attitude...
Lunch and dinners out, wine, beer or a harder drink at a bar of your choice, movies, theaters, museums, sports events, etc. Do whatever you do in male mode as a female and own it. It is a lot of fun...
Lexi,
You want a non-sexual sidekick to meet up with, talk, maybe go out in public or whatever. That is what I understand. So, the rest of what I recommend is based on that.
The first time I...
No! But in your case, celebrate where you are now and where you are going into the future. The truth to yourself will set you freeeeeeee!!!!!!!
Hugs,
Allie
Yes, this is more me. By a used outfit on eBay or Craigslist. Wear it out to the City for a fun night out and spend way too much on wine, food and more wine while having a wonderful fun evening...
I second Rachael's complete post. Any bar is a great bar in and around SF. All time favorite is Blush Wine Bar across the street from the famous Castro Theater.
Yes, Thanks for sharing
Being open and honest is extremely liberating. All this is just another part of you, a wonderful and interesting person. No shame required. Hopefully, one it you will be proud to share who you are...
As a crossdresser I had no budget and bought what I wanted when I saw something I liked, mostly thrift stores, Craigslist and eBay. Once I started HRT I completely stopped buying clothes, wearing...
I have also met Kristen at my best friends friend's house for dinner and fun conversation. She spent the night there and was in town for an LGBTQ+ event. Quite a wonderful story for those who are...
Thanks everyone. It truly was a wonderful experience. For you that do not know, I am a full time trans woman since 2018, and I love every moment of it. I started here as a happy crossdresser,...