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My name is Novascotia. My given name is Scott, so when I needed a new identity this was my choice. It?s hard to believe, but that was 60 years ago

There is no doubt that the welcome I recieved from the TSK Girls in Denver. My sister encouraged me to join and the ladies and their spouses treated me to a "coming out" party. I will never ever...

what tools and techniques to you use to shave your own back?

Just as it is with many of you, I suffered most of my life thinking I was alone and very not normal. With the internet availability, I found this forum (thank God!) and received much excellent...

Looking through all the sales ads in the sunday paper, watching all the What not to wear shows and filing through the ladies clothing racks at the department stores are a little more touchy...but...

I can only dress up safely when I travel out of town, which is fairly frequently. Last night, for the first time, I spent about 2 hours getting made up and dressed to venture out. I was in a town...

Go to the links she provides. I asked this same question a year ago. I did all the steps recommended and I believe it saved my marriage. Our relationship is not the same, but I am optimistic that...

My sister has described us as women groupys. When you look at a typical groupy, say of a rock star, for example: They dress the part, act the part, and assosiate with others with the same interest;...

But you said it so much better!

I agree, this is a great place to spend some time.

Now that I have been out in public, found a mentor in my sister and come out to my wife, my stress has diminished, weight lost and all around a happier person. Oh, I forgot starting anger management...

I have always known that Nova was part of me, but could only come into being in infrequent, short moments of time. I felt like Nova a lot of the time, examples are shopping in stores and quietly...

I would do what you are doing now. I admire your courage. I believe that if I would have come out much earlier in age, my life and that of my family would be much different now. At this late time...

I followed Shelly's advice, read the link and prepared for when the time was right. Although no time is really "right", I was able to get it out in the open with my wife, and we are now doing just...

It seems to me that during times of stress in my life, the need to seek my other me for a sense of calm. Holidays have always been a time that Nova surfaces to the forefront of my conciousness. I...

My sister has had the same experience, and advised me to never go out without an emergency "boy" outfit. She is far more open than I, so if I do ever get to go out like you did, I would come...

I have just returned from an unbelivable weekend. I applied to join the TSK chapter of TRI_ESSS and was invited by my sister to meet some of the members. Members of the chapter, and others to...

Wow, this forum has really changed my life for the better. In the past 99 messages and the sharing involved, I have grown more open and ready to evolve. I recently applied to the Denver TRI-ESS...

I didn't choose to be a crossdresser, as you did not. I cannot imagine giving in to either/or. But to answer your question; as a husband, father and grandfather, my family is to important to me to...

Oh yeah. It makes you feel so good!

I know the feeling and at the same time, fully aware I will never be able to live out of the closet. The best for me is to take advantage of out of town trips, allowing for safety out in public. In...

The more frequently I am able to be who I am, there is little if any sexual implications. I dress to make me feel better and enjoy my real self.

I wear panties to work, but that is all that is safe. My sister gave me a complete makeover Monday and said I could pass...I believe her, but I'm not that confident yet. Baby steps are better than...

My sister and I both prayed to be girls when we were little, not knowing it was not possible for us. My family is my life, so I would not ask to be any different now, as that would change to many...

I can't find "do you know how I feel". How do I get there? I could use the same kind of help

I, too have been dressing for decades, but Tammy, you are light years ahead of me. Thanks for the travel guide! I will eventually get to join you in the zone, I hope.