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    the inner beauty waiting kym's Avatar
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    a sister gone off the deep end

    I just received bad news today and i'm still trying to make heads or tails of it.

    seems a friend and sister in heels went out and had srs. the problem is she did not bother to inform her wife, she just went to taiwan to "teach" and came back last christmas, sat his wife down to let her know. how could someone destroy a supportive wife like that? makes no sense to me at all.
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    He certainly let her know who came first in his life! Divorce next?
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    the divorce is already in the works,
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    It just breaks my heart to read that. I'm speachless.
    [SIZE="2"]It has made me the weakest, ugliest person and has made me the strongest, most compassionate person I can be.[/SIZE]

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    [SIZE="3"]Doesn't make sense to me, either. That's nuts if you ask me.

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    the really sad part is she would have supported him and been there through the surgery if he consulted her about it.
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    Not cool at all... Pretty sad

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    Pull Something Like That With My Wife??? Yeah Right

    If I pulled that kinda stupid move on my wife I could have saved all the money on SRS......she would do it for free with a dull knife.........Just remember when you deal with your wife......you gotta sleep some time!

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    Wow, that's just all out messed up. I don't know what to say about that other than I feel terrible for his wife.
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    sorry Kym but your friend f***** up... This woman was supporting and... WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT???
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    Some peaple are so self centered that they dont even consider their wife's feelings before they act. this person deserves to be taken to the cleaners for what he did to his poor wife.

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    Nice going Einstein!
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    WHAT A STUPID SISTER ! What else can you say ? Uncaring ? This is a prime example of how not to inform your spouse

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    and you wonder why new gg who come her to learn more about us will not be amused by this...
    that was so very wrong ...
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    Well as much as I'm puzzled and dismayed about what is being presented here, I'm unwilling to pass judgement just yet. We're being given one perspective of one side of the whole situation. Is it possible somehow that there's more to this than we're privy to? I can only hope so! Like I say, if these are the full and complete facts then I'm shocked and dismayed that things went the way they did but I guess I'm hoping there's something to this story that I just don't know that might at least explain it a little more in some way

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    logically if someone was just self centred theyd announce they were doing it regardless of anyone elses thoughts. A self centred person does not consider other peoples opinions at all. To do so in secret means that fear HAD to be involved. Because humans lie to avoid judgement punishment interferance or consequences. There are no other reasons to lie other than to avoid. If she was self centred shed not care about others opinions and therefore not be concerned about the wives possible dissaproval.

    So then no matter how much she was in error she believed that she had to be deceptive about this.

    So then, the question is, before we can judge fairly, why she had that belief erroneous or not?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MJ View Post
    and you wonder why new gg who come her to learn more about us will not be amused by this...
    that was so very wrong ...
    thanks MJ

    how is her wife coping Kym?
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    Unfortunate to say the least.
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    Selfish is not the word I would use , more like self destructive . I've met few TS like that. Then end result was suicide . Rushed in thinking every thing would be perfect after wards and when their world collapses they decide to check out .
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    This kind of story scares the hell out of tg wives. I would never even repeat it to my wife.

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    Deep end

    Sister was most wrong in her decision without including wife,,,,cannot give any support there!! Doesn`t help `us` in looking any better to other SO`s

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    And we think it is a task to come out as CD...

    Imagine the fun of trying to explain getting SRS if someone didn't know before.

    If the wife was supportive of things, why didn't they just talk about this first? She may or may not have been cool with it but at least they could have looked into their options, even if one of them was divorce.

    Some TS truely think that getting SRS is the answer to all their gender issues.

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    [SIZE="3"]Absolutely Unbelieveable[/SIZE]

    How can anyone do such a thing

    If there is a worse way do do this I have yet to hear it

    I hope this persons wife gets all the help and support she needs
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    Extremely wrong. your freind will reap of bad karma

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    I'm lost for words!!!!
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