When I used the term “He might say Amanda’s not all woman” it was a euphemism rather than saying “Fred (real name changed to protect the guilty) is a cross dresser”. So he doesn’t know me as Amanda, what I’m concerned about is that he will realise who Amanda is and tell all our mutual friends and acquaintances. Sorry for any confusion.

Anyway last night different club same guy! Do you think he’s stalking me?lol.
He was there as I walked in and as I had a real short dress on I saw him take in a good eyeful. He just smiled. He smiled in a kind off ‘nice legs’ way rather than an ‘I know who you are way’. I think I might just treat him as if I don’t know him unless a situation arrives where I have to speak to him, like at the bar or something, when I might have to think quick.
Still not sure really, keep the advice coming.
Hugs Amanda